I know that I bring on some/alot of the bad things in my life, but some of them are just part of life...I think....it just seems I have a lot of bad luck...with cars, guys, friends, and family. Anyone know of a way to turn this around?
2006-09-30 20:02:19 · 10 answers · asked by Aimee B 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The way to stop bad luck is to stop believing in bad luck. There is no cosmic force that controls a person's luck, so one has to take control of one's own life in order to change things.
The other thing is, sometimes when we assume our luck is bad, we start to miss the good things that are happening. Maybe a more optimistic attitude would help.
2006-09-30 20:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by DragonOni 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Regardless of what people say, life is not meant to be a struggle. It should flow with effortless ease. The Universe is benevolent. If we will only take the time to properly romance the Universe, it will lovingly orchestrate an infinite number of details to arrange events and circumstances to favor us in all things.
It is what people call good luck.
I have good luck in my life. So does my family. If you knew how much good luck I have, you would probably want to vomit. LOL Many would consider it impossible. Things just go my way. I expect it.
However, I believe the same is available to absolutely every living soul on this planet. There are certain things I do, activities that I practice, that cause my good fortune.
I am not advocating any particular religion or faith here. I truly think anyone can be blessed.
I am not particularly religious or good. I go not attend any church. However, I understand and practice certain principles that contribute to my good luck. "What goes around comes around". It is Karma.
May I invite you to view the pages labeled "Ancient Wisdom 1 & 2 at my website http://TaoBarbie.com ? There are some things you might recognize. There are certain things we know and understand without being taught. All the answers you need are secreted deep within yourself. You only need learn to reveal them. The mysteries of the Universe are only mysteries to a noisy and cluttered mind. Many times we are not fighting bad luck. Many times we are fighting against ourselves. Learn to look inside the magical and powerful creation you are. You are amazing! The human brain is the only thing that can think about itself, while it thinks about itself thinking about itself. Choose the higher life.
Let yourself be more open and life will be easier. A spoon full of salt in a glass makes the water undrinkable. A spoon full of salt in a lake is unnoticed.
Do not believe the preachers of doom. Why accept their bad luck? They are stuck in a rut. Good luck is possible. Deep inside yourself, you know it is true.
Life is designed for you to win.
Good Luck
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2006-10-01 03:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Think of the things that can go wrong in advance and act on it. Thats the best u can do!
That way you know you are doing your best to prevent things from turning out bad. And u wudnt blame yourself as much at last even if things really turned bad.
But in the end its how those things that 'screwed up' makes u feel. So if u dont think too negatively about it, it wouldn't affect you so much! And i believe with hard work, comes good luck! Stay positive, and good luck to you :)
2006-10-01 03:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jagxery 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bad luck or good luck?? Why do some people insist that it's got to be one or the other?? I found that when I started making better decisions, I was less concerned with luck. Instead, I noticed my life started becoming better. I pat myself on the back, because I know I had a lot to do with the results...it wasn't just "good luck!"
Good Luck!
2006-10-01 03:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by pdubie2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Luck is just a word for random circumstance. You cant effect it, its random. If you want to turn your life around, examine the bad decisions you make and figure out why you made them. Learn from mistakes. Think about stuff before you do it. Expand your mind.
2006-10-01 03:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is what you make of the bad situations. If you were to look at it differently, say " my first boyfriend was a 200% dud" next time you would not put up with so much. So in a way you are weeding out the duds. If your family was crappy you now know what crappy is and you can make your own life so much better by not putting up with crappy. So see it as an improvement process.
2006-10-01 03:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A superstition is just a superstition if "you believe it." People who ALWAYS have bad luck, bring it on themselves and that is why they have bad luck. I watch people do that all the time. It's a way of thinking. Also, people don't want to deal with others who say they always have bad luck. Those kind of people are downers. Read some materials to change your way of thinking. Think good thoughts. You will only have bad luck if "you believe it." Ask God to help you change your way of thinking. Pray about it.
2006-10-01 03:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Fartbuster 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
They are called life's ups and downs and most people go through them. They are easier to cope with if you have them early in life (not that they are easier to cope with), but it helps in character building and prepares you for the harder knocks that may come your way.
2006-10-01 03:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is no such thing as luck.
2006-10-01 03:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to church and school.
2006-10-01 03:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Bandit 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋