probably, but not at the same time.
2006-09-30 19:59:04
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answered by ashma_nisha 2
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It is not possible to have a soul mate at all. A soul mate springs from the belief in one form of reincarnation. That we were all once a whole person and that we were divided and then reborn as 2 persons and that our goal in life is to find that mate, our other half if you will. The idea, while admittedly is quite romantic, has many holes to be filled when placed under scrutiny of logic. Mathematically it is not a sound plane of thought. Population "growth" mathmatecally disproves the possibility of this being true. The numerical division of the sexes has never been equal, to mention a couple of reasons.
Sound reasoning refutes the belief as well. Things such as. What if your soul mate was aborted or died at birth? Would a God create such a whacky system for humans to overcome? What if your soul mate was mentally retarded? Plus many other absurdities a person could think of to reason as to why we would not have to suffer under such an eratic system of mating.
The real deal:
Finding a mate for many is based on chance meeting; work place, church, mall, shopping, post office, family get togethers, travel, night clubs or many other public functions. In these circumstances all that is needed is for the odds of chance that 2 people be looking (consciously or not) for another person they might be attracted to and to meet finding themselves to be mutually attracted for any number of reasons; simular hobbies or interests, impressions of personality or potential mutual benefit such as beauty and wealth to name a few.
How often a person my end up in a relationship only to find a few years later the person they were madly in love with and couldn't live without has changed in their mind and is no longer the desired one. No doubt these two would be break-upers had told all their friends in the beginiing that they had finally found their soul mate.
Rather than leaving things to chance you could take a more systematic or organized approach and join a dating site, (albeit, caution is best here,) or dating service to meet that someone special that for a few years with will seem like your soul mate.
Ultimately no two people are perfect for each other all the time. Relationships change because people change. The key to remember is you have to both work to stay close and be there for eachother. To care enough about your mate to give them what they are lacking. Keeping in mind all the time that if this relationship seems like too much hastle and maybe you should move on to someone better for you...all you'd be doing is starting the same process all over again only to find in a few years there are things that have to be worked on in order to stay in the relationship. Sometimes it is better to fix the boat rather than jump back into the ocean. A little water may always leak in but with effort you can stay afloat.
2006-10-01 03:24:46
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answered by Anonymous
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I believe so. Your soul is who you are, and your mate is a person that you really feel something for. Combine the two, and you have a soul mate. So, in essence, you can have many as many relationships as you want. (This is as in many relationships as possible that aren't at the same time.)
For the definition, that most people might believe as people loving each other forever, this what I say. You might really fall in love with someone. You wonder if you can be with that person forever. You get married, and it lasts 10 years, and then things begin to crumble. Let's say you had a reasonable explanation for divorce (even though I don't really agree with them except for certain things.)
For that time, was that person your soul mate (that you thought you would love forever.)? Yes, of course it is. Now, if that person starts to loves another person, it's there next soul mate.
People for the most part, try to find soul mates to be with forever even though some people just don't really care for this, and rather just date people and move on to the next person. The point is that I believe it's yes.
2006-10-01 03:16:38
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answered by Anonymous
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ask yourself what exactly is a soul mate? i mean im sure my definition is different than yours. so its really a hard question to answer in my opinion however i do ha think if one already had a soul-mate why would one want or need another one.
2006-10-01 03:03:46
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answered by greg 4
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We have many soul mates, but really, only one who would be like a partner kind. We are here, especially for those who desire monogamy and to share with just one person, to have only one partner.
However, for the polygamists, that is their personality trait, and they could unite with other polygamists. If you examine your feelings however, you will know that there's only one person for you. He's the one you think about all the time, and who loves you unconditionally.
That's the way it is.
(p/S: Soul mates are also your friends and family.)
2006-10-01 03:02:47
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answered by Anonymous
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There is no such thing as a soul mate, what you are refering to as a soul mate is a person you have experienced many lives with, its why you feel that connection.........you have shared or come from the same energy........it binds you.
2006-10-01 02:59:51
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answered by WitchTwo 6
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NO! If you have more then one then they really are not soul mates, now are they. Think about it
2006-10-01 03:05:48
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answered by ? 5
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Yes I collect them
2006-10-01 02:58:52
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answered by tranquilized_inaz 3
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yes bec there would be changes as time goes by. When i was young, i had one but now, we already lost contact. at other times, i had different soulmates.
2006-10-01 03:06:47
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answered by sassy girl 3
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Probably, but you may not meet another during one lifetime. If you have got one now, hang in there baby!
2006-10-01 03:00:54
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answered by waytooeasy67 3
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i think it is very possible. you always hear about people that have been widowed remarrying and falling madly in love with another person. so i think that it is very possible.
2006-10-01 03:00:04
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answered by Ms. L 4
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