very few men ever ask out someone that is bigger built. why is that
2006-09-30 19:52:16 · 19 answers · asked by crazygurlizsexy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That isn't true if you keep self confidence in yourself! I'm a thick girl and my fiance is not a big guy he's rock solid and is in great shape(especially for his age) and he just loves thick girls like me! But of course I know that I look good and so do a lot of other men! Besides WE"RE COMING BACK, BIG GIRLS RULE, WE"RE SEXY CONFIDENT AND READY FOR ANY MAN, GET WITH IT HUNNY!!!!! Pick your chin up and go out there and find some confidence in yourself if you can't find it how can man? And you definitely don't want a man with a lack of confidence either! You Feel me! The men who don't want big girls just don't and that's too bad for them, they're the ones missing out not you! So come on Laugh Out Loud with me HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA (deep breath) and HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAAHAHA!!!!!!!!! F*** the guys who don't like big girls Oh Well!!!!
2006-09-30 20:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by bigger built? Do you mean curvy or actually plus sized?
Men are often intimidated by more curvy women, because they are more of a challenge. Most of the guys who like extremely skinny women are very insecure, which is why having a skinny girl by their side makes them feel physically bigger and stronger. They really need to work on their own self confience, without using women in this way. Men are genetically programme to find curves attractive.
As for plus sized women, there are lots of websites dedicated to BBW and thousands of men sign up to meet them. There is certainly no shortage of men in that department, you just have to know where to look for them.
Take care : )
2006-09-30 23:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they don't but I understand what you mean. Men want to go out with whatever they like to look at I guess. I think there is a middle ground where the woman is neither skinny nor fat. I think that is what most guys want to go out with. I don't think than men want to date the runway models. They are too thin.
;-D Obesity is not attractive. Anorexia is not attractive either, on either men or women. Let's get healthy people!
2006-10-01 01:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by China Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not true. There are guys who like girls that are all shapes and sizes. Those guys who like the skinny minnys haven't grown up yet.
I'm the right weight for my height, I'm 5'4 and a size 7-8, 127 pounds and I'm far from being fat. This one guy that I dated always said that I needed to lose weight. He was just stupid, I told him to go find some else that was super skinny. I
have other guys who want dated me because I'm very attractive. They think I dress nice and I'm not a skinny minny. They like me because I have a shape.
Be confindent and dress for your body type. You are a sexy girl you just don't know it.
I hope I've helped you.
2006-09-30 22:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman who is slighly overweight I happen to think I am beautiful. If a man is worth any time at all he will want you at any size. I'm not a pig I'm sorry my genetics suggest that I have a larger bone frame. My boyfriend loves me just the way I am he even gets mad at me when I even slightly suggest that I need to go on a diet. Bigger woman are not loose just because they are big I'm not loose. Dead fucks come in all shapes and sizes so pleas don't sterio type.
2006-09-30 21:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Redhead with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by bigger built?
A secure man would like women in varied sizes. Most men who are worth your time would like you at any size.
2006-09-30 19:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by triniqueen40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think the bigger built women have less confidence? Or are afraid of getting teased by their friends. Have heard of that before...over thick legs...and big head...on a size four woman.
2006-09-30 19:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause in this country, bigger women are looked at as being lazy and not having self-control or low sex appeal. I dont really care on looks, but more on personality
2006-09-30 19:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_airforce_guy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Our society is partially to blame for this. Look at the Barbie doll and supermodels
Our society tell us that skinny is beautiful and large is not. I would not dare to guess at how many people don’t fall into this category but there are some who don’t let society tell them what’s beautiful.
Parent and family and environment are also to blame for this.
2006-09-30 20:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Skinny girls look better in their clothes they wear. To be slim it means going in sports - men like sporty girls.
2006-09-30 19:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Milvi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋