i got into a little argurment with my girl. it's been a yr and 2 monz...i never had a pr0blem with her...then all of a sudden she did something that she told me she wasn't goin 2 d0..(not serious)..it got me really mad....and when i got mad...she got mad...idk why but she jus did...i had a serious conversation with her but i'm not to sure if everthing i said to her went in her brain. idk if she understands what i'm saying or just agreeing with me to end the conversation fast. s0 right now i'm jus thinkin about how 2 ask her if she loves me and if she thinks that this relationship can fight through the pr0blem so none of this can happen cuz i love her so dearly but it seems like she doesn't understand...i am so proud of what she is and who she has become...i told my girl that she is very lucky to have me as a bf cuz' der isn't anyone out der that can treat the way i am treating her right now...i need advice on how to ask her how she feels about me and if she has stong feelins for me....
2006-09-30 19:50:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um...what makes you so special? and why does she need you again?
2006-09-30 19:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by triniqueen40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, telling her that you're the only guy for her is like telling her that she can't do any better. As much as you may believe this is true, in girl language, that's a slap in the face.
Secondly, what exactly did she do? Are you making a bigger deal out of it than you should? That may be why she's getting mad at you.
Thirdly, she probably does just want to end the conversation. Reasons for this may be because you're not telling her anything she doesn't already know, or that it's something she's already beating herself up for, it may even go back to the fact that you are, making a big deal out of the situation. I'm sorry if you don't believe that's true, but it's difficult to assess the situation, when I'm unsure of what the situation really is.
Finally, to answer your question: To ask her how she feels about you, I'd wait for her to cool off for the time being. She's obviously upset over something, and if you ask her right off the bat, the answer isn't going to be something you like because she's mad at you. I can only advise you to talk (I know, you've already done this, but it takes time) and to let her blow her steam off for the time being.
2006-09-30 20:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by kusainezumi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all don't ask if her she still loves you. That is soooo pre-school. What, one argument & you think she's gonna bail??? Just find some time to say you really want to talk to her about the argument that you had the other day. During your talk you should be able to figure out how she's feeling~if not ask her then.
2006-09-30 20:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can totally find out is for you to ask her yourself. You, and no one else, will never know what's on her mind unless some talk is made. Try meeting her somewhere, and talk to her about how you feel, and what is going on in her life. Maybe she feels guilty or bad about what she supposedly wasn't supposed to do, and maybe feels too ashamed to admit it to you. Try going at it slowly and sweetly so you won't hurt her. But, talking and finding out thinks never hurt anybody; and that strategy works almost everytime.
2006-09-30 19:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her even if your arguing tell her you need to talk about you relationship. Listen every couple is going to argue if you never argued I would actually worry. Just be honest with each other Good Luck
2006-09-30 19:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dawnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lose us at the end. There's always someone out there who can treat them better.
2006-09-30 19:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like war:easy to begin but very hard to stop!
2006-09-30 19:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show up naked and bring beer.................lol
2006-09-30 20:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by shaffy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋