ok i had sex with my bf and my my parents don't like him and now i can't talk to him unless i talk to him secretly.how do i deal with that. and how would u feel if it were u, and what would u say to your parents in order to get them to let u talk to that person again?
2006-09-30 18:49:58 · 8 answers · asked by adriane c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would just let the situation cool down for a while and then talk to your parents like an adult about the situation, if they feel like they can't trust you then things will not go well for you, you have to make them fell like they can trust you
2006-09-30 18:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by M JOHNS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 17 and darlin as long as you live in their house then you have to live by their rules. There must be a reason they do not want you to talk to him. If you still feel the need to talk to him once you are 18 and moved out then that is your free will. But since you are 17 and living in their house and having sex, please atleast have enough respect for yourself, him and your parents not to get pregnant or some kind of disease.
2006-10-01 01:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely in a tough situation. You did not say if you and your boyfriend are in love, only that you had sex with him. If it is meant to be, he will wait for you to turn 18. In the meantime, make plans for your future. If you want to move out of the house at 18, be employed, save money. Have a plan, perhaps move out and share an apartment with a girlfriend who is also employed. And, as you already know, use precautions for safe sex. Good luck.
2006-10-01 01:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.o
Ok tell your bf to change his habit, at least in front of your parents, so your parents will accept him.
Pre-martial sx is not a good idea, by the way. It gives lots of trouble.
2006-10-01 01:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Silent Water 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really does love you, he'll wait till you turn 18 where it will be legal then. But agreed, if you're still living with parents at that time, you have to respect who they want/don't want in their house.
2006-10-01 02:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by plezuplezme04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents and have a deal..and whatever deal you and your parents have agreed, you must stick to that and never disregard that order..and know the rules on your house and also your limitations..thats all..gud luck
2006-10-01 02:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by ..bERmzZz.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new boyfriend
2006-10-01 01:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o0o0o ouch!
2006-10-01 01:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by sirmarvinmartian69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋