When we first started dating we seamed perfect, but now it seems that he keeps lying and now he is starting to disrepect my family and friends. The last time we were together he called out another girls name.
2006-09-30 18:37:00 · 30 answers · asked by crazygurlizsexy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and by the way this is for my friend
2006-09-30 19:17:35 · update #1
This is called the setup. He's leaving you in stages. He doesn't have the bAlls to tell you he's not happy so he'll make you miserable so that you end up leaving him. That way he doesn't have to deal with his guilt because he knows he's the one at fault. Do yourself a favor. Plan your own exit. Be ever so nice to him; fix him a wonderful dinner, candles, wine, soft music. Take him by the hand, pull him close and say, "Honey, it's me, not you. This just isn't working and I care about you so I want to leave on a good note. Let's just be friends and go our own way. I know there's somebody out there for you, just like the right guy is out there for me. Now, let's not only call it a night. Let's call the whole thing off."
2006-09-30 18:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. He has issues and can't offer you a decent relationship. It will only get worse. You should be cautious. I had a lying cheating BF who I stuck it out with for nearly 5 years, thinking that sooner or later he'd figure out how much I love him and he'd start treating me better. That doesn't work. I ended up with two incurable sexually transmitted diseases because of him, to say the very least. Listen to what your gut says and know that there is no way to change another person. Respect yourself and your family and friends and get away.
2006-10-01 01:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question you already know the answer. Accept the fact that you are not in an exclusive relationship. Here are your choices: continue to date him or cut him off and never turn back. You can't change him. Don't try.
2006-10-01 01:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by 101pupil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an easy question.... he's using you girl. Dump him. He's not worth your time. You can do better. He might even be cheating on you with that one girl he called out.
Wish you luck and don't get heart broken over this foul. There's plenty of guys out there.
Peace!
2006-10-01 01:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by what_it_do? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On. everyone deserves better. While your wasting time with that guy you could be passing by a good relationship.There are plenty of fish in the sea, get fishin'
2006-10-01 10:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by wecair2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you. The minute he calls out another girl's name is the time to dump him.
2006-10-01 01:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by plezuplezme04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that but it's time to let him go ..
The only name he should be calling out is yours not some other girl..And a guy that disrespects my family is nothing but a*s*s
Best of luck to you !!!
2006-10-01 01:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just thinks he has got you where he wants you, I have been in the same situation. Just leave now I can guarantee it wont work out, unless you want him to rule your life. Its better to get out sooner than later.
2006-10-01 01:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by cherri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girrrrrrrrlllllllll. You are making me crazy!
Don't let people treat you and yours like that! Have some respect for yourself!
Snap out of it and kick his sorry butt to the curb.
2006-10-01 01:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premeditated syndrome
2006-10-01 01:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋