what is it? what?! huh, what? what? we're not good looking enough, is that it? not studly enough? huh? what? not rich enough, not muscle bound enough? car not pimped enough? what? we're too clean? is that it? no herpes? we have stable jobs, is that it? stable jobs scare you? u wanna get hurt on purpose by the bad guys? must be that right? u wanna be screwed over easy, that must be it right? WAKE UP!
2006-09-30 18:29:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUDE! You and I are in the same boat almost. I am, I admit a lil impatient yet, I cant help but notice that I can only be "friends" with women that are WAY WAY worthy of being called wife material. Instead like this irritating show parental control./ women go after the half descent disrespectful towards their parnets thugs. And i am really sick of the same things myself. So youre not alone.
2006-09-30 18:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by haloengine7496 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, someone's bitter. Alright, there are a couple of possible reasons. First one is, you're attracted to the wrong kind of woman. Some women never matured past the bad boy thing. Don't try to date them, because it won't work. There are those of us who much prefer the nice guys. Find them.
Second is, maybe you're either too nice or not nice enough. If you're a doormat, you will be a magnet for every ***** on your continent, and everyone else will ignore you because it's irritating to have to deal with doormats all of the time. This doesn't mean that you should be a jerk, just that you should stand up for yourself sometimes. Have an opinion. That'll be cool.
And then there are the supposedly "nice guys" who aren't really nice. For instance, you sound really bitter and p!ssed off. Women pick up on these things, and they will avoid you. If you're going to be bitter about the whole of femininity, then you're not going to get a date.
2006-10-01 01:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women do. My experience is that typically men who ask this question are only interested in the snobby girls that DO feel that way and don't pay any attention to the Nice Girls. So first off maybe look at who you are going after. Then know that in time the right person will come along. Keep being yourself because if you change to try to meet some one else's standards you will end up disappointed because a relationship not based on who you really are will never work.
2006-10-01 01:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by nativeAZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl wants to be with an idiot, ****** instead of you, then why would you want to be with her? Think about it. Girls like that are immature, and wouldn't appreciate you anyway. I know, because I was that girl. I passed over countless nice guys because I would always find fault with them for one thing or another. I wanted to have what the girls on TV had, a hot, smart, funny, dangerous guy. The problem is, I ended up in a relationship with someone that ended up in a restraining order against him because he was a total psycho. We girls learn, it just takes some longer than others. Some never learn and end up married to these jerks.
When the right girl comes along, you'll both know it. Don't put up with any crap from a girl, either, just because she's attractive. I see that with smart, nice guys too much. Don't settle, but don't expect some model off the pages of Vogue to step into your life. They're generally looking for old rich guys who they can marry and then cheat on with the jerks.
Anyway, keep your head up. Nice guys end up with awesome girls, too, you just have to wait for them to grow up a bit.
2006-10-01 01:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by J B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold Up Slow down before you hurt yourself!!!
Don't blame all women. I say stop blaming women and general, and start blaming yourself. You have to stop going after girls that like bad boys. Rich little snobby size 2 big boobed blonde girls like the bad boys. This is common knowledge. Don't hate all women. Just stop hunting down the lil' mini skirt wearing bad boy hunting skeezes. They will always chase the bad boy and end up used and abused. Don't worry they do get theirs in the end...
I read your profile and looked over your questions. What your obsession with asian guy/white woman couples????? Do you have a serious issue with this? I'm not being rude. I really wanna know.
2006-10-01 01:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by rebecwi3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow wow wow there now not all women r like that so please make a note of that and jus to let you know my bf is a good guy and hes sweet and hott and clean and did i mintion sweet but the truth is that i do like bad boys some times bcuz they can give you a thrill of a life time but yea ide rather hav sex with a nice guy than a herpes infected giuy but hey thats life and lighten up a little that might help
2006-10-01 01:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep asking the same questions?
I've looked at your Questions and you seem desperate. Women can smell desperation a mile away and they are NOT attracted to it. And why do you keep asking about Caucasian women. Maybe you should try Korean women. Maybe it is YOU who has the problem. You keep asking why women ignore the good guys... you really don't sound like a good guy. You sound like a stalker.
2006-10-01 01:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, a lot of girls do like the bad guys, but there are some out there that it's just a phase that they go through. I went through it, and found a lot of bad guys that treated me like sh!t and now that I want a good guy there are none around. Why is it that good guys are so much harder to find and get ahold of?
2006-10-01 01:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Baby_love4482 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman want the bad boys. Wake-up. Even the best looking women want the bad boys, the ones that are dangerous and exciting. OK-except for me. I have had my bad boy-now I am raising all of his boys by myself. So yeah now I want a good guy.
2006-10-01 01:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by denny jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are one of the good guys ? And your mad because you feel overlooked? hummmmm? I've given up on finding a good guy,one who will treat me like a human being.One who doesn't have to make me small in order for him to feel big...... I don't CARE what kind of car you drive,and as long as your job makes you happy and pays for what you need, that's fine. The truth is I haven't bean asked out on a date in too long to keep track of. I'm in my forty's,have 3 kids,and no I'm not hugely overweight or a two baggier......so maybe there are women out there who would love to go out with you ,if YOU ASKED, assuming ,of course you are what you say you are.A good guy.
2006-10-01 01:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by blondecarpenter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋