I dated this sweet guy for a short time but then he ended it saying he was "busy". He was my first boyfriend, and my first kiss, all at age 20. I'm really picky but he seemed so great I gave him a chance. It was a beautiful and innocent relationhship (it never went past kissing). But after he ended it he would still say hi to me on msn, but he has stopped doing that. I finally decided to block and delete him on msn, and I'm trying to forget that I even met him for the sake of my own sanity. The problem is that I still have dreams about him. In some dreams I just see his face but in other dreams: I pinched his butt once, or saw him kissing another girl, or I saw him when I was vacationing with my friends. The relationship ended 8 months ago but I still see him in my dreams, WHY??? and how can I get the dreams to stop??? it's feels like he's dead and is now haunting me in my dreams & sometimes I feel as though maybe I never met him at all, like it was just a sweet dream, but it was real.
2006-09-30 18:20:47 · 7 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it sounds like a good haunt sometimes. ;)
You deleted him cuz it didnt seem it was going anywhere...a futile attempt to move on. But, you havent. You probably saw a future with him...good hopeful dreams...but not what is reality. You havent gotten over that dream, that hope. Youre not ready to move on or let someone else enter your heart.
2006-09-30 18:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams are you subconscience. Your thinking of things that could of happened (fear of him kissing another girl) or things that you wish could have continued on( you still being in a relationship
and having fun by pinching his butt) Your not over him yet. Maybe you need to see him or talk to him to really get over him. Maybe seeing that he is not what you really want. I'm really against seeing him because you might get hurt or used, but maybe you might wake up from the dream.
I've hope I've helped you.
I hope I've helped you.
2006-10-01 01:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! You know,i'm a guy but i feel as if an X lover of mine is performing some sort of black magic,cause thats crazy!! I really don't know,i hope you get over it though"believe me" it bites.She's in my dreams aslo,i'm older but well i suppose,you and i have the same scary dreams.I asked my docter and she prescribed Valium,for this same prob.So go do the same,and don't go crazy like i did:( good luck.
2006-10-01 01:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are the way our subconscious work out problems. Relationships are problems. It's likely that you need to work through him dropping you completely. Let the dreams come, it will work out in the end.
2006-10-01 01:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U got it bad...now how to help??? try finding someone cuter, sweeter ,more loving. He might have stopped talking to u cause he might have thought u were getting too clingy...the best way to get the guy or girl u want is to play hard to get.
2006-10-01 01:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you still like him(it seems that you do), if not look for someone else to take your mind off it. not really sure what to say, other than he obviously meant alot to you, sorry.
2006-10-01 01:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by monotonous_life7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Silvia Brown ;>]
2006-10-01 01:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋