Whe nyou meet someone and you both click and get to know each other .. after a few months.. when is it a good time to say "I love you" and is it to early after a few months of seeing each other?"
2006-09-30 18:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to let all know.. this question is for a g/f of mine.. not for me.. sorry should have said that before.. but you guys all gave great answers.. I do have one already for the best answer.. have to wait .. thanks!!!
2006-09-30 18:46:37 · update #1
Depend on the man. Some of us cringe at those three words. Why not ask him how he see himself three years from now. If you are Not in that three year plan of how he sees himself, it's definitely to early to say I Love You.
2006-09-30 18:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait abit longer, saying 'I love you" can make or break a relationship. And don't say it just 'because', only say it if you really mean it. Wait a few more months atleast until you know him even better. Your still in the honeymoon phase, and everything may seem wonderful right now, but people can change. Give him a chance to bring out his true colours then see if you still feel the same.
2006-10-01 01:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever rush. Fast rise = fast fall. Remember this.
The right time is...I don't know. I am a passive person so I will not say it until the girl says it herself.
I suggest you take at least a year to know each other. Divorce is really gonna be a scare so don't rush a marrage. Get it right the first time.
2006-10-01 01:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by Silent Water 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you are sure and know that they feel the same way. There will be a romantic moment such as a passionate kiss, receipt of a present, over dinner, etc. Your heart will know, and you will blurt it out without thinking. I wouldn't say it to soon, though.
2006-10-01 01:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by croc hunter fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying '' i Love yoU '' no need to find the right time, when you Feel that you want to say, you can just say it out!
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2006-10-01 01:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say i love you when you mean it.dont rush into saying it.it takes time and if you dont mean it dont say it.trust me...you will know when the right time is.it USUALLY doesnt happen within the first few weeks or month,just give it time and you will know.
2006-10-01 01:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by hct_lg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not something you plan using a timeline.
when you feel it.say it.
but just because you feel this way doesnt mean he will.
be prepared for the "i really like you" thing.
but im sure ur a great girl!
2006-10-01 01:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by J_Riiiiight R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not if your both feeling that way if you love him then you love him tell him lots of people say it much sooner then a few months
2006-10-01 01:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best time is between the engagement and the prenuptial agreements.
2006-10-01 01:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by oatie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you feel it. You dont "see" love to know when its present you feel it and you'll feel when its right time to say it. You'll probaby just blurt it out. dont plan it, then its forecasted and calculated.
2006-10-01 01:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by tammy a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋