Why did my ex used to cry when we were together and now that we broke up, he is still sleeping with me, but tells me he isn't interested in me anymore and doesn't want to get back together? He even said he was going to go watch me in a pageant and take time out of his life to do it. Sometime I think he likes to control me. If he loved me would he be trying to control me? He plays with my emotions. Why? If he wants me out of his life why doesn't he just let itbe and stop laying games (esp by sleeping with me). We;re not talking anymore, because last time we spoke he never wants to listen to my feelings or hrear me cry or tell me things to hurt me. I asked him if he loved me and he said he didnt want to say anything hurtful. So i go . ok come over and sleep with me once more and he goes no. And i go then you don't love me? and he goes. yes i do thats why i am not going to sleep with you anymore.......um?????????????????????????
2006-09-30 17:31:26 · 8 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yet he was sad wheni said i didnt want to sleep with him anymore???? i don't get it.
2006-09-30 17:32:31 · update #1
he either don't love you or he don't know how to love
2006-09-30 17:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've got it all wrong. I love my girlfriend and that's why I'm not going to sleep with her. We've been going out for two years now (If I were eighteen I'd ask her to marry me, but I've got to wait three more months). I want us to wait. I'm so happy that she is a virgin. She has gone out with other guys, but has never slept with them. We have a great relationship and we can tell each other anything. I love her because I can cry myself to sleep in her arms, she is always there for me and I'm there for her. My love for her isn't based on sex, its based on our friendship. Our friendship has gone beyond anything I've ever experienced before. I would do anything just to be with her, I can't get enough of sitting next to her, holding her hand, listening to her voice, and looking into her eyes.
2006-10-01 00:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by C-Mart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok um my question would be why are you still sleeping with him...it goes both ways you know ever think that maybe you were sending the wrong signals? guys don't get the whole "figure it out themselves thing" you have to smack them and say here;s whats going on sit down shut up and listen then if they're good you can let them talk
2006-10-01 00:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to equate sex with love - he doesn't - he's been using you for sex - he's feeling just a bit of guilt over this. Move on - you seem to hope that by sleeping with him he'll love you. You're kidding yourself. sex does not equal love
2006-10-01 00:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by JJJJJJJJim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. My ex must of been his female twin. Find someone else and you will forget him.
2006-10-01 00:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Bugs Malone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop sleeping with him. what is why he was sad. stop f**** w/him!!!!
2006-10-01 00:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MORE ACCION
2006-10-01 00:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by chuco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give more oral
2006-10-01 00:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋