if a man who is 32 -33 sayz i don't know what i want in life should a woman still pursue a relationship?

Answer 1

these people wake up to reality on their deathbeds - get out asap

Answer 2

Yes because age means nothing as far as knowing what you want out of life! Wait is he employed because that says a lot. Can he in fact hold down a steady job? My fiance' and were just supposed to be lovers and friends because he didn't know what he wanted out of life or a relationship, he had a drinking problem and loved to go out and party and drink more than I did. He was almost 34 when we met but he had a job he had been at for 6 years and was making about 85k a year and I could tell that he wasn't just a ******* loser by the way he talked. Now he's 35 making much more money and has stopped drinking and we're getting married in June of next year and we have this dysfunctional fairy tale happily ever after family! so if he has a steady job(pay doesn't matter or it shouldn't) you can see a good man in him and he is taking care of his responsibilities than why not but don't be fooled if in a year you've shown him the better side to life and he don't want a commitment then just say F*** him! Because it could be that he just hasn't met the right woman(doesn't mean that you're her either) to show him the better side of life! I still say Keep your options open until you do get a commitment from him!

Answer 3

If the women likes the man yes. But If I was the woman no. Because he wont be able to take care of the family. He has no leadership. Not a good person to deal with family and children. But If you love the guy then go for it you dont know what he might do.

Answer 4

many men at all ages don't know what they want in life but I wouldn't pursue a relationship with anyone that doesn't know what they are looking for because it only leads to a confusing mess one minute your with them and things are fine and then the next they are telling you they need space or they are confused etc. if you really want to be with him wait around stay friends and when he figures out what he is looking for then maybe things will work .

Answer 5

GOD NO!!!!
That's a green light telling you NOT INTERESTED!!
If a man were interested in a woman, he will be ideal, meaning I want this and that out of life, you know selling themselves.
But this guy seems like he wants you to lose interest in him so you should take his word for it and move on.
He is a lost man, so don't try to be his hero or anything, everyone knows what they wants, they just may not know how to attain it. there is a difference.

Answer 6

Not an easy call. Some people, both men and women are late bloomers in life. How do you feel about him otherwise ? It's a risk, but if you really like him, it may be worth taking. Good Luck with your decision! :)

Answer 7

If you love someone, what that person does for a living is irrelevant.
On the other hand if that statement means he is unsure of his relationship with you, then its time to look elsewhere.

Answer 8

Hmm,i'm 32-M and i would say,probably not!32 my goodness,what i own in life is almost payed for and,well i say"NO"

Answer 9

No. He is trying to avoid commitment and hasn't grown up yet. Find a real man.

Answer 10

I had a husband, who at the time said the same thing to me. He didn't mean career-wise, I found out later, he meant sexual-wise and was boffing every girl at his workplace who would have him.

Answer 11

Don't walk away from him: RUN!!!

To pursue this relationship you are courting disaster.

Nothing good will come of it but heartache!