My last relationship broke my heart and now I don't even feel like dateing anyone. A few people ask me to go out with them but it didn't feel the same as before. I'm kind of afraid to start another relationship. We were togeather 4 years. I don't want to go through that again. But I don't want to feel alone either. What should I do?
2006-09-30 17:17:25 · 13 answers · asked by Isabella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM SORRY FOR HOW YOU ARE FEELING, IT NORMAL TO
FEEL SAD AFTER A BREAKUP ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU WERE TOGETHER FOR SOME TIME. BUTYOU KNOW THAT
LIFE GO ON. AND YOU MAY FEEL THAT YOU WILL NEVER
LOVE AGAIN BUT YOU WILL, JUST TAKE BABY STEPS,
AND GO OUT THERE AND LEARN TO LIVE AGAIN, THERE
IS BRIGHTER DAY AHEAD OF YOU, YOU JUST NEED TO
START LIVING, IT WILL GET BETTER, JUST TAKE IT DAY
TO DAY.GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-30 17:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fist let me say that any break up is hard and the longer it last the more you have to deal with when it ends. I was also in the same place a year ago and found that dating was the last thing i WANTED. I was so afraid to trust again, to put my heart out there. But... being alone was not so bad it helped me too see where we went wrong, I was able to figure out what i really wanted from a relationship and what i needed in a partner. I like to think that no relationship was pointless,from every relationship you learn alittle bit more about yourself like they say that which does not kill us only makes us stronger and better. So don't give up, be patient and above all else be true to your self and your feelings. good luck sweetie
2006-09-30 17:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you are experiencing a broken heart means that you have a good heart. The change in a relationship doesn't mean the end of the world for you, it means the relationship came full circle. There are no mistakes, there are only lessons. You will love again -- and always remember this relationship in your heart. The relationships we have are building blocks to becoming better human beings. Your heart will mend, and you will be loved again. I promise.
2006-09-30 17:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's natural to feel that way..Y'all was together for 4 years...you just can't "forget" about what you had..No one else is going to feel the void..that you once was use to..y'all probably got serious at some point in the relationship...and everytime u was w/this person..no one else crossed your mind..maybe that's how It Is now...It take time to heal a heartbreak..It just don't happen over night..also another thing..maybe the person you was involved with, met your "expectations" now no one else can compare..try & go out..be social..but let It be known that your only out for friends..and nothing more..hope that helps!!
2006-09-30 17:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by superkisses86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to give it time and eventually you will move on and forget. obviously this person isnt worth it if they broke your heart. just be happy and smile. it isnt the end of the world. because you will find someone when the time is ready ; everything happens for a reason believe it or not it mean not seem like it now but it does.
2006-09-30 17:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be alone even in a company, and non-alone even if you bu yourself.Surely you can do something that will excite you. There is the whole cosmos and the whole humankind for you.Why should you feel sad? Best things happen when you are not looking for them.
2006-09-30 17:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rajesh Kochhar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If relationships are not the answer for you then find something that you enjoy that is. Don't wait for something to magically apear and remove the doubt and hurt, not gonna happen. Get involved in other interest and eventually with time the pain will dull and you can find the love of your life.but, not while you are dwelling on it.
2006-09-30 17:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by krystaluc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if I am talking to a boy or girl so I send you girly advice. Don't rush things its ok to hurt but don't get to down about and if you were together for four years and he dumped you screw him he shouldn't of held on to you that long. if he wan't sure. so stay away from drinking it doesn't help. I know and if you don't like men any more there is always the option bio. but don't run into that. right away besides the bible says not to do that.
2006-09-30 17:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is one person. dont judge the next or any others by the one that broke yr heart. you will date again but in yr own time. we live and learn by mistakes made to have better relationships next time around. read tips on dating and relationships to better help you on this site
2006-09-30 17:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by intrigue_ m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone once told me , the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else..
Move on, move forward dont live with any regrets, regrets are only a waste of time.
2006-09-30 17:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by kibbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋