if you knew something that you did will hurt the person you love more than anything, would you lie to them in order to protect yourself and them from getting hurt? it is such a bad feeling that if you do hurt them you will feel like you can't live with yourself type of thing.
2006-09-30 17:05:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW DON'T JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS, I DIDN'T CHEAT ON HER.
2006-09-30 17:12:16 · update #1
"life is a series of pulls back and forth. you want to do one thing, but you are bound to do something else. something hurts you, yet you know it shouldnt. you take certain things for granted, even when you know you should never take anything for granted. a tension of opposites, like a pull on a rubber band. and most of us live somehwere in the middle. sounds like a wrestling match, so which side wins?
love wins. love always win."
2006-09-30 17:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lies have a way of catching up with us sooner or later, so if there is anyway you can be honest with your true love please do it. There is risk in every personal relationship, and there's pain as well as joy. The longer you know someone the more feelings and emotions you will experience, but if the love is real it will survive even in the midst of turmoil. I hope you can reach a place of honesty without destroying the love you share. Still, since I don't know all the details, my wish for you is that your final decision is one that both of you can live with and remain as deeply in love as you seem to be right now.
2006-09-30 17:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might ought to actual say i might lie. I recommend, in case you will possibly lie for your self (and additionally you adore your self) what's the version. you will possibly want them to do a similar. I understand you want to attempt and lead them to pay or understand what they did became into incorrect. tell them that, yet don’t have them lose their energetic hood over it, exceedingly while it ought to create a domino result so an prolonged way as dropping their homestead, automobile . . . . . . you would be feeling incredibly disenchanted with your self later and it’s not nicely worth it. i'm specific you have lied for others in the previous and in the event that they understand that, than that should lead them to sense as though they at the instant are not as significant to you through fact the others which you have had the misfortune of mendacity for. believe me it would get alot deeper than in basic terms a lie.
2016-12-15 17:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really depends what it is. i mean if it is becacsue they are in love with this person and that person is cheating on them than you should tell them the truth. but if it is something deper than that then u should make a choice about that. honestly it depends what it is about. and u got to be able to live with the choiced u make.
2006-09-30 17:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by iranian gurl and proud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on the situation...I would have a much harder time breaking somebody else's heart than my own...I could live with my mistakes but I'm not sure if I would have "the balls" to tell the truth to the other person ....but that also depends on what type of problem I would have
2006-10-02 19:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by cassie86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you know it will hurt them you still need to tell them because if you keep lying one lie is going to end up in another one and the truth is the best thing you could tell. they will probably have more respect for you for telling them the truth even though they are hurt
2006-09-30 17:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mum is the word pal, do go to your mother for help! Just keep quiet. What you dont know will not hurt you.
2006-09-30 17:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by nice guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you think that it would really hurt them.
But if they find out that you lied to them that will hurt them too!
Sorry but that is the truth!
2006-09-30 17:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by Naughtybutnice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,it's going to hurt even more when they find out from someone else.You might as well get it over with.
2006-09-30 17:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk what will happen
whatd ya do??
kinda depends
cheating is kinda the obvious
but yet its too predictable even though that's what it is
i think
anyway
you need to tell
its gonna hurt either way
both of you
its just the way life is
"think before you act" that's what my mom says
i never had a way to prove that but now i do
YOU HELPED ME!
and i hope i helped you!
2006-09-30 17:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋