i lied to my guy to keep him from flipping out and getting mad but when he found out he always accuses me of being a lier. now he always brings up the past and is throughing that im my face constantly. now to him it seems like i cant do anything right anymore. what do i do? should i end it or keep trying?
2006-09-30 17:04:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, there was someone that was talking to me in class and he liked me but i didnt like him at all. he tryed to tickle me one day and i lied to my guy and told him nothing ever happened. well i didnt know it but my guy had a friend in that class i didnt know about. the reason i lied is bc he has a bad attitude problem that we have been trying to fix. well, his friend took a pic of my friend trying to tickle me and sent it to my bf. now he always throws it in my face about how much of a lier i am. when i was just trying to keep him from getting mad. what do i do?
2006-09-30 17:19:51 · update #1
don't lie. keep trust. losing trust is alot easier than gaining it.
2006-09-30 17:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up, just show him that you really want him and would not lie to him again as to gain back confidence. Show you've changed and if he kkeps on telling you about what happened in the past then tell him to stop doing that or sorry i've got to tell you this but, if he doesn't trust you than you will have to leave him. Wish you luck.
2006-09-30 17:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by elipra91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest the two of you have a truce. You promise not to lie anymore and he promises to keep his mouth shut about it. If an agreement cannot be made then start fresh with a new guy and get your act together.
2006-09-30 17:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. If i'm the guy i would probably forget about it so just give it some time. Another thing is maybe the guy doesn't want you any more so he's making up excuses for the break up. Use your heart.
2006-09-30 17:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is going on with you, walk away from that relations, you won't be happy with him at all, but if you think that fighting all the time, and be jealous is LOVE you must be crazy, if he doesn't trust you now, what made you think he will do later?but if you love him tried one more time to convince him, and show him that was at huge mistake, but if he continue the same donkey ***, damp him and his stupid jealous, that might be an excuses to walk away from you and you do not GET it. WAKE UP....
2006-09-30 17:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by shiningsun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the situation is uncomplicated you in simple terms met adult men . and adult men by no potential been committed , you prefer a adult men who's committed .. what are the sign of guy ? he could be like 18 or 22 yet he nonetheless stay along with his kin for him his kin and there understand comes first ..
2016-10-15 09:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry you lied. Don't know why. But he shouldn't keep holding against you if he wants you. Tell him that, but accept your guilt for lying.
2006-09-30 17:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It SERVES YOU RIGHT! There's hardly anything worse than a liar! If you lie about something, how can anyone possibly trust you with anything?
2006-09-30 17:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
should you blame him always tell the truth from now on cause either way you swing it he is going to get mad. at lest you told him the truth
2006-09-30 17:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEpends how deep the lies are... Hmm I would never be seen agian if my gf cheats on me... I would be in mexico
2006-09-30 17:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without trust, you have lost the relationship..he hasn't forgiven you for lying twice, so it is best to move on...
2006-09-30 17:11:30 · answer #11 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋