ok heres the situation and ill try to make it short.
I spoke to this guy that I met on the net for about a month on the phone. I feel like we really got to know each other in that time.. anyways I met him last week at a club, didnt get to see him that long he had to leave.. We kissed and it was great.
It's been a week now that I didnt see him ( he lives pretty far) about... 40 mins away.. we tried seeing each other this week, didnt work out. He told me he missed me .. that I was a great girl, beautiful bla bla bla but that he doesnt know what to do because I live far.
I told him how I felt about him.. and I dont wanna let this go but what should I do?
Do I tell him that we can still try to see each other and if it really doesnt work we forget about it????
WHAT TO DO.. :(
2006-09-30 16:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
40 mins by car, I dont have a car. THANK YOU :-s
2006-09-30 17:03:46 · update #1
i met my soon to be wife online, we met in person and we are working thru the distance thing, its hard missing each other but we get to know each other better as the time goes by apart. i think its making our love stronger more in depth than just being together in person as sex plays a big part, if not sex the kissing and hugging or cuddling and so on. be real folks. and 40 minutes oh me and my abby dream of that. try 25 hour flight one way. with 3 stops. not to mention a 35 minute cab ride after that. sheesh 40 minutes i drive 1 hour to work one way. Love can survive all, and i know you are not in love yet but you should at least give it a try.
2006-09-30 17:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by sivracious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
40 minutes away really isn't that far. A huge amount of people travel that amount of time or more just to get to work every day. If you are really into each other, then don't let a paltry 40 minutes stand in your way. I wish you the best.
2006-10-01 00:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by DMaximus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really interested in you, a 40 minute drive is nothing. Like the book says, "He's Just Not That Into You," or he wouldn't have said "he doesn't know what to do because I live far."
2006-10-01 00:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey read what you just wrote again, that your a great girl, beautiful bla, bla, bla but he doesn't know what to do cause you live too far, in other words...babe....he ain't interested ....if you notice he continues to want to see you he will, but the likes of it...I don't see it...for the future, don't give your All to someone you haven't met yet..forget the chat-lines babe..all losers.. trust me..
2006-10-01 00:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard to deal with. You both have to work at it and meet half way. It cannot be all one sided or it will never work. it seems that he is thinking about that aspect of it as well. If you don't plan on living closer together at some point, I believe this relationship is doomed. But this is just my opinion. ;-)
2006-10-01 00:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by bullet_with_buterfly_wings_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
40 minutes away and that's far? Sheesh, you people aren't serious, obviously. Drop him, look for someone else that thinks you're worth the travel. 40 minutes is NOTHING.
2006-10-01 00:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you two really like each other you shouldnt let distance seperate you. I met my fiance when he lived in milwaukee and i lived in madison (1 hour apart) We dated liek that for one year then I moved in wit him, and now he lives in madison.
2006-10-01 00:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make the effort..if you don't see each other anymore you'll always wonder what could have happened...if it is meant to be it will all work out..good luck
2006-10-01 00:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by M E 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you dont ever plan on living near each other, dont bother, it will never work
2006-10-01 00:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Yoda 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
meeting people online sucks
2006-10-01 00:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋