i have a friend who i really like. im 19 and shes 18. i asked her otu a year ago and she said no. we are pretty close. is it bad to ask her if she wnats to be friends with benefits as in we have sex without being a couple? if she didnt want to date me would she be interested in this. i consider her one of my best girl friends and we both trust each other.
2006-09-30 16:55:56 · 17 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go find someone else,don't be a fool.
2006-09-30 16:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits is more soemthing that just happens than something that is arranged. If you both have a great friendship, why risk ruining that when she has already said no to a reltionship? Yeah sure, sex is great, but it complicates a situation faster than anything else. It sounds like this is a one sided feeling as far as the romance goes, adn I think friends are alot more important than sex.
2006-09-30 17:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Shea M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not bad, it's honest. You're bein straight up and I know I'd appreciate it. Just be sure that no feelings are involved already and be sure the best you can that no one will catch any. Yea, the best "friends with benefits" hook ups to me are those that are really friends and you can trust and you know you'll be friends no matter what direction it goes in.
2006-09-30 17:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude if u cared anythign about ur best friend then u wouldnt do it .. friends especailly best friends are hard to come by these days.. i recommend to all my friends to never get involed with there best frineds.. i never have and never will.. i dont think u really even care about urself here either.. cuz someon that can ask another person to sleep with me but not be with me is a fool!
2006-09-30 17:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he has no purpose of ever courting you. that's a familiar manipulation. he will do precisely adequate to make you imagine you've a risk, yet not in any respect come to a call to you. do not fall for it, tell him you want some area and get over him. It received't end properly in case you compromise for his furnish.
2016-12-04 02:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not? If it works really well she might be attracted to you. It is possible that you may lose your friendship with her if you ask her that question but you never know. Look what happen to Jerry Seinfeild in the episode The switch.
2006-09-30 16:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell? It's not a bad thing to have friends with benefits!
Give her this poem I wrote for you;
Well my friend,
The time has come.
Drop your pants,
And give me some.
Now isn't that touching?
2006-09-30 16:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no, no, no!!!! I know people who have gone this "friends with benefits" route and it never, ever works out.
Go find someone else to have sex wtih.
2006-09-30 16:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were her, I would not want to complicate the relationship. Sex just makes things more complicated.
2006-09-30 16:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no.....dont ask her that. dont ever ask a girl that!!! if it happens, it happens but dont ask ok! besides...those never work out n e way...trust me. try asking her out again and if she still doesnt want to just forget it...just stay friends..and find someone else.
2006-09-30 17:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself, are you ready to lose the friendship? even if she agrees, and things go wrong, it will never be the same. once you cross that line of intimacy there is no going back.
2006-09-30 17:00:35 · answer #11 · answered by rita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋