In other words..a woman who eats 3 square meals a day and has real boobs. A woman who doesnt starve herself and sticks her fingers down her throat. Remember: look at yourself before you answer. Ask yourself first....do I have the right to judge? What do I have to offer? What gives me the right to compare? Am I so perfect that I have to have perfection? Be honest.
2006-09-30 16:49:43 · 22 answers · asked by peachturnover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I can see that most people would. But I am no means putting down skinny girls. I know some girls can eat and will be skinny no matter what. Im talking about judgmental guys who just go for looks and no brains here. I can see who the real men are. I'm not stupid and I am a grown woman. I refuse to date shallow guys.
2006-09-30 17:10:24 · update #1
The woman you describe is a healthy woman. I would date her because any man (in the right mind) knows looks are not everything
2006-09-30 16:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by lefty_miller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now, wait a minute...everyone has different tastes, and they aren't just limited to girth, so to say someone who wouldn't date a "fat" person is being judgemental is a stretch, and frankly sounds like more of a bitter response to being slighted in some way.
But a person's body is only one aspect of their attractiveness, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However, if you're so obese that you think you're being passed over by EVERY guy because of it, then guess what....you're probably too fat. Lose some weight...for your own health.
I know many overweight people that are very comfortable in their own skin, and that's fine. But if you could wrap that skin around a small car, you need to drop some pounds just as much if not moreso for your own well being than your date-a-bility.
2006-09-30 16:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'm female. I couldn't help answering this question, though. Some guys really like fat girls. One friend of mine said that there was more to hold on to. He didn't like fat, he liked chubby.
My hubby is fat. When we first started going out he wasn't fat but he had some meat on his bones. Not even almost chubby. He looked better when we first met but, because I love him even more now it is not a huge deal, to me.
Not all thin women are anorexic, thank you. Some of us have good metabolism, some of us watch what we eat and some actually exercise. Some do many things.
Remember, you can have what you want IF you want it bad enough! Nothing is impossible!
2006-09-30 16:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister and I both are big girls. I have found from my personal experience and my sister's that many men will date a big woman. You have to have some confidence in yourself and a good self image. You cant frump around and expect to be asked out. I am married to a great guy who loves me for me. So, no matter what the jerks will say, many men look past weight, and into who you are. And some men are even attracted to heavy women.
I hope this helps you out
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2016-12-04 02:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, what a foolish question. Society's standards are warped and incorrect. People should not shun people because they don't look like supermodels. That's just stupid. I actually think most supermodels look kind of ugly because they look so "perfect", according to society's standard.
2006-10-01 13:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this before, and the ones that I dated were very fun women to be with, both at the clubs and after at my place...I like having a little extra to grip onto while where going at it!
2006-09-30 16:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep ! It took me a while (years), but I finally figured out that when I had a picture pretty mate, I only had something o look at. A real person has feelings, emotions, wants, needs, as you do. A picture just sits there and collects dust.......
2006-09-30 16:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by alwhisman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have to judge to know what i want. Fat is twenty pounds overweight so society says. If a person doesn't appeal to me it makes no difference if there overweight or not.But most people make weight a priority.
2006-09-30 16:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only people who say sh*t like this are the truly obese women.
Seriously its not gonna hurt to lose a few pounds honey... you'll feel better, look better, and most importantly be healthier.
It also sickens me that you insult women who are thin. F*ck you, they not all anorexic, many just lead healthy active lifestyles, but you wouldn't know that would you?
2006-09-30 16:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋