When my girlfriend came over tonight, she came into my room because I wanted to show her something on the computer. Well, my bed wasn't made and I had a laundry basket of clothes that needed to be folded and she didn't offer to fold them or make my bed. She just said she had to go to the bathroom and later that she needed me to take her home so she could get to bed early tonight. Is this a warning sign that she is lazy and wouldn't make a good wife or mother?
2006-09-30 16:21:17 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm no, I think there was something else about your room or house that she doesn't like.
2006-09-30 16:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Abigail S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's either that or a sign that she can no longer stand the sight of your lazy, good for nothing bee-hind.
If it is the former, you do not want this ultimately worthless broad to be your barefoot and pregnant lump of human protoplasm standing in the kitchen doing nothing but taking up space. I know of two guys who didn't heed similar evidence of laziness during the early days of their courtship and both ended up with women barefoot and pregnant not doing what they were supposed to do: Cook, clean, wash, iron and wait hand and foot on their respective men and give it up whenever their men wanted to get some. You, on the other hand, are a wise man who is wired to detect sloth behavior when it first appears. She appears to be a dumpee and you the dumper. Haul out the trash.
If it is not that, she is still not doing the dishes, folding the laundry or making your bed and that is a sign that she does not know the proper order of things and is disrespecting you while dumping your stupid, lardbucket bee-hind. Shove a wash cloth in her hand and direct her attention to a smudge on the wall and if she doesn't hop to it you may have a feminazi showing her true colors. Dump her before she dumps you. Hand her change to take the bus home and tell her not to slam the door on her way out.
Chin up, brother, you'll find another hot, born to please her man mother and housekeeper in no time. Piece! Uh, I mean peace!
2006-09-30 18:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its means that she isnt your mother, I go to my fiances house and its messy and I dont just walk around cleaning up, its not my space, I have my own messes and a child to clean up after. We have an agreement that after we get married we will share responsibilites I have a job and work just as hard he does, this isnt leave it to beaver honey this is the real world, you should have put your laundry away and made your bed before she came over, so she doesnt think you are a slob....Lazy.. and wouldnt make a good husband/father.... Men need to clean too
It means she is smart, she isnt going to wait on you hand and foot and shouldnt expect her too.
2006-09-30 16:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by rottie110 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be living in the dark ages....your room being messy doesn't say your girlfriend is lazy, it tells her you're a slob! Maybe she wanted to leave early because she is rethinking your relationship. Who would want to be stuck with someone who can't take care of his own messes? Think about it. Would you want to pick up after her all the time and make her bed? Now, if you went to her house and her room looked like yours does...then you could consider her to be lazy.
2006-09-30 16:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Curious George 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...it means your lazy. Clean up your room you bum. You let her come into your room like that????She's probably thinking you won't make a good father or husband if you can't do something so simple as fold your own clothes or make your bed. Give her my e-mail address. I'll show her a real man.
2006-09-30 16:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Omar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy...someone has not taught you the right things about women. Your girlfriend is not responsible for your mess. The fact that she did not offer to clean up after you has nothing to do with whether she would make a good wife. She would be smart not to marry someone who believes that is all she is good for.
2006-09-30 16:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely no longer Bruce. Jesus calls for Obedience to his Commandments. The Commandments are a transcript of God's personality. God is the author of his Holy regulation(Exodus 31:18). His regulation is a Revelation of God's will to mankind. to modify the regulation will be resembling replacing God. The Bible says "i'm the Lord thy God, i modify no longer." God Holy regulation is immutable. guy does no longer have the potential to modify God's words in any respect. we are obligated by skill of God to keep his Commandments. The regulation of God is Holy, only and powerful(Romans 7:12). The regulation of God is both eternal and conventional and it really is been known always(Romans 3:31). Jesus stated that he did not come to damage the regulation(Matthew 5:17-18). Jesus magnified the regulation. He raised the extreme moral commonplace of the regulation at the same time as he lived between adult adult males. those who receive Christ into their heart and keep his Commandments will stay always at the same time as Christ returns the second one time. particular note: a million John 2:4 a million John 5:3 Revelation 12:17 Revelation 14:12 Revelation 22:14
2016-11-25 19:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your girlfriend, not your mom or your maid. Clean your own mess up! If anything, she probably was turned off by your mess and that's the reason why she had to go home early. Look for a breakup soon.
2006-09-30 17:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she isn't lazy at all. You are. And, she is your girlfriend. It isn't her job to pick up after you. You can do it yourself. And, her not cleaning your room has nothing to do with being a good wife or mother. Come on, man. Grow up. Clean your own room.
2006-09-30 16:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Zack D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't clean up after you either. If you make a mess, clean it up yourself. Even if you're married your wife isn't going to clean up after you all the time. Who would want to do that? It's not like you marry someone or are in a relationship with someone so they'll clean up after you. That's why you have a mom.
2006-09-30 16:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by kulegurl98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY, Your "girl friend" should beckon to your every need. Those things that you stated need to be done. She "your girlfriend" needs to be more nurturing to your needs. It's her job to clean that stuff if she wants your "BIG DADDY" INSIDE OF HER "STINK HOLE". When she comes over next time, your responsibility is to not only have her do those chore's that she rudely ignored, but ALL OF THE OTHER FIVE OR TEN THAT YOU DEMAND ON HER. Who does she think she is anyway? HUH? Give her a bucket, mop, and an apron for her birthday next time.
2006-09-30 16:36:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋