Have you ever felt that you have met the right guy and that you want him to be the one you lose your virginity to?
Do you ever know if he's the right man and if this is the right thing to do?
I am a female. I have known this man for over a year. We recently decided to start seriously dating. I am over 21.
2006-09-30 16:07:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think the longer you wait time will tell, you never really know if its the right thing to do or not, just dont be pressured into it, if you feel you are being pressured into it dont do it, wait untill the time is right and when it is you will know. and if he still around when you feel its ok, and you are comftable with it, and you know its what you want and you know for sure his heart is into it for all the right reasons then go with the flow, its all about what you want and if he does to...good luck...
2006-09-30 16:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really know. Life is a risk in any direction you take it. You will have to make the decision to do it or not. Foremost, you will be the only one whom shall be responsible for the decision. If you can take the responsibility for your choice, either way, then you are perhaps ready to do so.
Give your relationship even more careful thought. Think of the repercussions of your choices good and bad. In the end you should do what ever you feel is right.
2006-09-30 16:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Was in the same situation when I was your age and it turned out that the jerk wasn't who he was pretending to be. How well do you really know this guy? Have you ever met his family? Does he introduce you to his friends?
Because it's easy for them to pretend they're something they're not when they're just with you or with you and your family/friends but his family/friends know the real him and either they're going to be "What's up with that" when they see how he's around you or he'll revert to being his real self when he's around them.
I wish someone had warned me. My "Mr. Right" turned out worse that Dr. Jekyll's Mr. Hyde.
2006-09-30 16:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it for marriage..because if you give it to him and end up breaking up ...you will probably regret it..my friend did. You are lucky because you have a chance to save it for your husband, that's the best gift you could probably ever give him..why risk it for someone you are not sure about..because you aren't sure or u wouldn't be asking Yahoo.
2006-09-30 16:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tootsie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Just make sure you trust him enough to be around for awhile afterward. You don't want him to leave soon after, or you'll be very heartbroken.
2006-09-30 16:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who cares if it's right or wrong. Have a good time and be safe about.
2006-09-30 16:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you really think that he could be Mr. right then go ahead! But really think, is he worth losing it?
2006-09-30 16:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Naughtybutnice 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
the only advise i can say to u is if your heart says yes then go for it, u will not know if it was a mistake until u try,
2006-09-30 16:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by A soldiers wife 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
a women has her intuition and her heart to follow you should listen to it if it is telling you something.
2006-09-30 16:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by imissyou_iluvyou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i mean yeah because it u really love them and they love u back than yeah u should be with them only if u are sure
2006-09-30 16:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋