just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy. plus she goes to another school so i gotta do this fast . i used to like another girl and that girl liked me back but when i was about to tell her , it was too late, she states that she is taken so i don't want this one togo like this one, anyways this girll ( the one i'm having a problem with) is wayy better than the girl i used to like so plzz help mee.
2006-09-30 16:04:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was boring and you have nothing in common? What's the point of pursuing this?
Go find someone whose interests you share, where you have common values, and not just the one you want to have sex with.
2006-09-30 16:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a minute to reread what you've written . You sound completely desperate . Girls can sense that , and I would run the other way . Cool your heels what is the hurry ? You are very young , you have time to get to know a girl before you just
" go after her now before it's too late " . It's not as if she is the only girl left on the planet , slow down you will find a great girl !
2006-09-30 16:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eric, i'm not that sure, but i think i read this question yesterday or 2 days ago ... the same one .. am i right ?. Well, it doesn't matter. My friend, act now. Everyday i read this type of questions .. should i tell her that i love her?. But of course, do it!. Having attraction or being in love is so wonderful, we have no time to loose. Don't miss this girl either. Don't worry if you both are completely different. Oposite poles atracks .. remember?. Go my love ... go,go ... and don't ask what to say, don't be shy ... give her a kiss ... lookt at her eyes .. touch her softly...Just do it, alright !...
The best of luck... for both of you.
2006-09-30 16:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie,
i understand ur dilemabut u have to use common sense here .. you dont want to hurt u or this girl.. but u need to be true to ur heart and who u are.. i think u need to have a talk with this girl and see the way that she feels about u.. cuz rejection isnt something u or her needs right now.. ur in the phase of ur relationship its like should i leap or stay on the groud kinda thing..i think that when u have the talk with her it will really give u a flag kinda deal.. like ok i'm leaping or ok its just a friend thing.. u wanna do this to either be more than friends or just stay as friends. the trick to it is just be real and up fonr t about it.. but best wishes and i'll keep u in my prayers..
2006-09-30 16:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to make changes, it's not a good fit and you should move on. They say opposites attrack but I guarantee you, they never make it together. You shouldn't make a rash decision on the rebound, you'll only get hurt again. Find someone with like tastes as yours, with the same interests, and don't rush into any relationship, for any reason.
2006-09-30 16:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by dreamchsr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are bored when you hang out, it's not a great sign. having stuff in common is pretty necessary to keep a relationship going. sorry!
2006-09-30 16:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always give 2 Chances
2006-09-30 16:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try out some things that she likes,that way ull be able to talk to her and have something in common next time.
2006-09-30 16:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look at the other stuff she likes and try liking it and hang out with her and show her u like them and u like her
2006-09-30 16:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by air_dair_eeyor@hotmail.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak english
2006-09-30 16:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋