don't get me wrong i love my husband with all my heart but sometimes i just want to get a good night sleep if you know what i mean he wants in the morning he wants it at night and sometimes i just want sleep sometmes i just don't think i can hang with him but he gives me the entergy to keep on but what do i do about him wanting it all the time 24/7 but don't think i don't like haveing sex with him I LOVE IT it's GREAT it's just that i don't want sex everyday like him what do i do
2006-09-30 15:54:59 · 14 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question. I am in a similar situation, except with my husband and I it is reversed. I want it all the time, and he is good to have it onc or twice a week. I know it causes some frustration for me.
2006-09-30 15:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! You are lucky because I am married and I'm 36yrs and my husband is 43 and he does not have sex with me at all... I believe that it's the age thing.... I wish my husband could have sex with me all the time... Because I have not been having sex with him in so long I would love it all the time...
As for your situation, I think you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel because communication is very important in a marriage... If he loves you he will understand and just take it easy... (Good Luck)!!!!!
2006-09-30 16:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to my world I am 34 and my fiance is 24, we have had the same issue, I just calmly told him that I love him, and I find him incredibly sexy and that I love having sex with him, but everyday is just to much, and it makes me feel like an object and not a person. I told him my sex drive is different then his, and that I feel uncomfortable telling him no, but sometimes I just need to feel like not having relations, and dont want to feel guilty about it. He calmed down a bit.
And I am not half as stressed out about sex, also I find myself wanting it more now that I dont feel like a living blow up doll. Sometimes I am just tired and want to relax, and dont want to be touched. LOL, he was confused at first, but now we have a happy medium..
2006-09-30 16:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by rottie110 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want make him happy - who do. Better have the 7/24 then somebody else is going take care of him. Enjoy the life.
2006-09-30 15:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the man just what you just ask us, and he should understand that all woman need a break from sex at some point.
2006-09-30 16:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him. When he wants to do it, you should back off, and tell him not tonight, or not now, tell him you just want to talk, like ask him how his day was or something like that. A relationship isn't based on physical contact, it also involves communication. Talk to him, tell him about, honesty is the key in a relationship.
2006-09-30 15:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by exxohh<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to fuc k him so much and so hard in one day, make him c um like 5 times and the 6th time he c ums, he will have no more c um left, so this will hurt al ot when he shoots a blank and he wont want to have sex so often. You gotta teach him a lesson.
2006-09-30 15:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Rudy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that lets go out and have some fun other than have sex he is your husband so he should be understanding. the joys of marrying a younger man they have to have it all the time
2006-09-30 16:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,, no offense but your husband sounds a lot like me,,, and I really really don't like to be told No,,,, or not tonight,,, Your going to have to be very understanding with him,,, and explain very nicely,, if not you may bust his male ego.....
or,, you just as well get you some hormones and rock his world,, LOL.....
good luck
2006-09-30 16:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm,i'm 32yrs also! 69 trophystile.Have a great day=)
2006-09-30 15:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋