I am 10 and will be turing 11 in 3 months. Should I dump him and hurt him AND me?
2006-09-30 15:52:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you should. And your mother should wear your butt out!
2006-09-30 15:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know if you are a really nice girl then it was possible to get a boy friend this early but maybe you are too young. I'm in the 9th grade and went through this same problem too. Even though my parents never knew i still dumped my girl. But i didn't actually dump her i just said maybe we should be together when we were older. She understood and here we are now dating almost every day. So i say don't tell your parents that you have one right now and just be friends with your b/f for a while until you feel it is the right time. then maybe in 8th or 9th you can get back together if you can keep in touch that long. I hope he understands like i would if i were in this situation.and if he doesn't then just try to find another boy when you are older. Good luck ;^)
2006-09-30 16:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Elisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just because your mom won't like it doesn't mean you have to hurt the both of you. After awhile your mom will understand, besides nothings wrong with puppy love right?
After all I'm only I'm the sixth grade and I've had a really nice boyfriend since the fourth grade.
2006-09-30 15:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me tell you something, I had my first boyfriend in 4th grade. My parents didn't know it either, they thought I was still too young to think of it. And they never found out. If they had they would kill me too. Guess our case is quite similar isn't it? If you really love this guy, go for it. As long as it doesn't affect your academic performance nor your attitude, I think it will be fine. Except if your mom gets highly suspicious easily, then I think you have to reconsider it very carefully. I hope my answer can be off help, good luck!
2006-09-30 16:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lucia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By no means should ya dump him!!! There is nothing wrong with liking a boy at your age(Over the next few yrs there will be more,maybe) so if your Mom has a problem with this then have her e-mail me at popps@cinci.rr.com
2006-09-30 16:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best for the two of you to be friends and not boyfriend and girlfriend. When you're only 10 years old, there's no need for a boyfriend. Just wait until you're older sweety, it would be much more rewarding for you. Your mom wouldn't like the idea of you having a boyfriend because it would worry her. Kids your age need to focus on school and going out and having fun with their friends and not focus on a boyfriend. Leave the boyfriend stuff for when you get older! :)
2006-09-30 15:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DUMP HIM! If you have to keep a secret from your mom, just to keep a relationship then itz not worth keeping. Besides ur too young for that stuff...U need to slow down and wait a couple of years like untill ur 14.. or 15 MAYBE!
2006-09-30 15:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, I think your way too young to be dating, your only in 5th grade. The feelings and likes/dislikes haven't developed all the way yet at the age your in right now. You could keep dating him and all, and tell your mom about it, but don't take the relationship too serious.
2006-09-30 15:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by exxohh<3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl you are way too young for a boyfriend dump him and wait at least until middle school to have you a little boyfriend. You dont wanna end up prego at 11.
2006-09-30 15:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont dump him tell your mom hes just a friend and ask her if she can drop u guys off at the movies then kiss in the theater make sure its dark! best of luck
2006-09-30 16:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't dump him. Instead, dump your mom. Move out of her house and live on your own, so then you can call all the shots.
2006-09-30 15:55:02 · answer #11 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋