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As you can tell by looking at this page, this question is long, but please take your time to help me.

I know this girl named Kimber, and she is cute, funny, and sweet. She knows i like her, but i dont know if she likes me like that. Every other day or so, i go to her house, we play pool in the basement, then something else like ride our bikes. On the bus, i smile at her, and she giggles. i don't know if she likes me, or is just giggly. she also smiles when i show up at her class or something like that. I think she likes the poems i give her, but maybe that's too old school. i'm getting to know all her friends right now. I really think she would be perfect for me, and so do my friends. Do you think i should ask her to a movie? Should I kiss her? (Long answers are the best)

2006-09-30 15:46:53 · 17 answers · asked by The Boy NextDoor 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

2006-10-03 23:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0 0

Since you all have been hanging out I see nothing wrong with asking her to the movies. Actually, I think it is a good idea. To answer your question about whether she likes you or not is hard to say because I don't know who she is or how she feels about you. From what you describe about her actions when she sees you, seems as if she like you then again, she could be just flirting. When you two go out on a date, tell her how you feel about her and ask her how does she feel about you. As for the kissing, when the time is right then you will know when to kiss her. I wouldn't recommend that you kiss her without talking with her about her feelings for you. Good Luck.

2006-09-30 16:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Shay 4 · 0 0

Hey man... hold your horses. The best thing to do is get some random person that you don't know to ask her if she likes you. If you find out she does like you, you should lead her into a romantic trap, you know like leaving roses and chocolates but from a secret admirer (you). If that don't work do what i did. I got one of my friends that my girl did not know about and made him dis my girl. Then I said that no one is ever gonna disrespect my friend cus she is the most important thing to me. YO, she practically started to cry. But if she just wants to be friends, tell her your true feelings. After that give her some time to think. All you have to do is play it cool.

2006-09-30 16:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by datfreshness 1 · 0 0

Okay, yeah, I think she likes you! If she smiles every time she sees you then she definitely likes you. Usually if a girl likes you she will look right at you. If a guy likes a girl they almost always look a way. It sounds like you both spend quite a bit of time together and if she isn't bothered by you hanging with her friends then that is yet another clear indicator of her liking you! You should ask her out to see a movie!

2006-09-30 15:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0 0

I usually give pretty long answers, but as complicated as your situation is there is a simple solution. You have to ask her out! Do it without telling her how "perfect" she is for you, etc. When you say too much of that stuff, it makes them think you are desperate. That will make them lose respect for you and your chances of going out with her are ruined. Just ask her out and see where that leads you. It is quite possible that she wants nothing more than friendship from you. Good luck!

2006-09-30 15:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0 0

First of all, don't get too excited, you can't expected in the end the way you wanted, it can turn bad. I don't want to get your hopes down. Maybe she likes you or not, but still give a try. Ask her out and see what happens and if you like her a lot, tell your feelings.

2006-09-30 16:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by AnyL12 2 · 0 0

okay definetly ask her to a movie
if she is interested she will say yes
if she seems a little uncomfortable at the movies then do not kiss her
but if everything is going great then it will just happen
if you kiss her and after that date everything is the same as usual ask her to do something else but with friends and if she says yes then it means she probably does like you
that's the best i can do
i hope i helped!

2006-09-30 15:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no kiss but movie yes
she might just be like a best friend type of things try to go to a movie and c what evolves while at the movie just make sure that before u kiss her she feels comfortable enough to kiss
best of luck i hope yall date and have the time of your lives

2006-09-30 15:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 3 · 0 0

Ask her to a movie, get to know her. I really think she likes you. To be sure, ask her. And when you feel like it's the right time then kiss her. I know you should go step, by step. First, talk to her adn get to know her. Two, ask her if she likes you. Three, ask her to a movie. Four, kiss her wehn you're solidly going out. She is showing signs that she really is into you. And I hope you're into her too. o.O

2006-09-30 15:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 0 0

Give her your number and tell her to call you if she calls this will show you whether or not she is interested in you if she calls ask her out on a date don't move to fast so trying to kiss her would not be a good idea

2006-09-30 15:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0 0

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