I am about to go on my first ever date with a girl. We are both in college and take a class together - she is 19, I am 21.
The main question I have is this: what would be the best thing I could say/ask her to break the ice?
Another thing I want to know is this: could you please tell me some things that I should avoid discussing/bringing up at all costs, as this is our first date, and I would like to make it to a second date if possible?
Thank You in advance for your input!
2006-09-30 15:34:03 · 13 answers · asked by racing_into_the_future 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk about things that you have in common. School, family, whatever. You guys can use it as a time to get to know each other. Movies are a good date because you don't really talk, you aren't supposed to. After the movie, talk about the movie, other movies or the other loud people in the theater. Pop, popcorn, the previews. Whatever you want. You can go to an inexpensive restaurant, afterwards, and then, you can talk about other movies.
2006-09-30 15:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..well definately don't mention any ex-girlfriends during a date. Also, tell her how pretty or beautiful she looks. Every girl loves compliments. Ask her how her day was, and if she says it wasn't too great ask why. Also, listen to what she has to say. Don't look at any other girl or there probably won't be a second date. Flirt with her a couple of times during the night, but try to stick to the conversation. Don't interrupt her. And when she asks you something, give her your honest answer. Good Luck on your date, and hope ya have fun. :]
2006-09-30 15:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, eventually you'll probably want to talk about these things...BUT....I would avoid the subjects of sex,religion and politics...you will find out about that,in time...I sure do hope she's not a transvestite,atheist Liberal...what a bummer that would be!!
Just have a wonderful time,hon. Ask about her classes,her interests,music is always a good,safe topic. The best way to keep from having awkward silences is to get people talking about themselves!!
2006-09-30 15:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's easy...just ask her questions about her life and her opinions on things.
Talk as little about yourself as possible.
Girls love a first date where they get to do all the talking and they hardly learn anything about their date.
After they get home and realize you didn't talk about yourself at all, you will seem so mysterious and interesting.
That leads to a second date. Good luck Romeo!
2006-09-30 15:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to her and ask her out on a date avoid bringing up exgirldfriends embarassing stuff that heppend to u and dont burp fart ect. be a gentleman and she will fall 4 u
2006-09-30 15:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by lil_mamas_sk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her about her life.some of the classes she takes,what she wants to do when she gets out of college.things she likes to do(can help with a second date)and dont forget to tell her about u too tho!
2006-09-30 15:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk about music, TV, movies, sports, etc. Anyways, at all costs, keep the convo light. Don't talk about your friend in jail, or you're great aunt's funeral, or how depressed you are these days.
2006-09-30 15:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep the conversation simple. Don't bring up other guys.
2006-09-30 15:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't discuss religion or politics...........on the first date, for sure...
(lol.......unless maybe... that's the class you have, together...)
Be yourself... she likes SOMETHING about you... she's going out with you, right???
Good luck, hon!
2006-09-30 15:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she believes in the here after!When she says yes then tell her well, you know what I am here after.
2006-09-30 15:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by Gin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋