I am 14 and no bf. My sister had a bf when she was 14 so i need one and well i don't have one. I kinda talk to boys sometimes but i just moved to a new school this year and i hear people talking about how they have had a boyfriend and stuff like that. My older sister always askes me if i have a boyfriend yet and i feel like i have to have one this year or my sister will think i am antisocial (which i am not!!) i talk all that time lol. I am pretty and not fat or anything so i dont know y i dont have a bf yet.....
2006-09-30 15:31:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not saying fat ppl dont have bfs they do! it was not meant to be mean!
2006-09-30 15:57:19 · update #1
Yes i feel your pain, I am 14 and still don't have one yet... My big sister had one when she was 13 and she is 22 and they still love each other!! Well all I am saying is that I would like one some day soon too, and I feel your pain totally!!
2006-09-30 15:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Wolf Apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need to follow in your sister's footsteps about having a BF at 14. I had my very first BF when i was 20, i am now 26, and we have been together ever since. it takes time and patience for you to find the right guy. ur just 14, enjoy being a kid, go to school, hang out with ur friends, etc. you dont want to have a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. once you have a boyfriend, you have a relationship. feelings will be involved. think about it.
2006-09-30 23:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to say don't get cought up in the pier pressure when the times comes it comes. Don't be the girl that is talked about in school that is considred the girl that (how can I say this in a nice way) a little tramp that dates every boy in school. Having a boyfriend is not easy for alot of girls and if you read some of the questions here there are alot of them that have thier heart broken or the either the boyfriend is cheating on them. So don't get a rush to find one when you feel that you have found the one you like then go for it and see what he says to you.
2006-09-30 23:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't NEED a boyfriend. You WANT one. Learn the difference. Anyways, you can't rush this kinda thing. You want a bf so badly, find a cute guy and flirt! Flirt until the next school dance and on the Wednesday of the week of the dance, ask him to go with you. Most likely he'll say yes.
2006-09-30 22:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Hamster A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get a boyfriend until I was almost 18... Don't stress over it. You're too young to get so serious about just one guy. Be yourself, make friends with boys first. Try not to feel bad- just wait for the right guy to come along and you'll be happier than you would be if you had the constant drama now.
2006-09-30 22:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by irunforfun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first just cause your sister had one doesnt mean you HAVE to have one. Who cares what your sister says and thinks[No affence if you do] but DONT get a boyfriend just cause you need/want one. Have one when you like the guy and you know him well enough. Then your relationship will last longer.
2006-09-30 22:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by xpoisonousxinjectionx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I'm in the exact same boat as you, but, I'm 35 years old, don't worry yet, the loneliness will not start chewing on your soul for about another 10 to 15 years. If your alone then, worry. Right now relax.
2006-09-30 22:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be pretty, skinny or smart to have a b/f. You have to be likeable, fun to be around and easy to talk to.
Just because your sister had one doesn't mean you "have to have one too" that not only sounds silly but petty and a tab brattish too. As well as slightly jealous of your sister.
Relax.... you will have a boyfriend...several of them before high school.
2006-09-30 22:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not there are more important things than boyfriends. concentrate on your studies and having fun join clubs you like. you don't need a boyfriend to be some one you already are!!! Life is too short too be thinking of some boyfriend.... when all is said and done you have to be happy with you
2006-09-30 22:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl, don't worry. I'm turning 17 and I still don't have a boyfriend. But first, you're still young. Second, maybe you are waiting for the right one. And third, everything has its own time. I'll say again, don't worry.
2006-09-30 22:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by AnyL12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋