there are areas of conflict where this was adopted as a measure of ethnic cleansing and brutal revenge as in Bosinia and Rawanda, where aggressors were from different religions or tribal backgrounds. There have been many examples in past too and history is replete with them.Can a mother still love the child who would forever remind her of the pain, helplessness and humilitaion she underwent at the moment?!!!!
2006-09-30 15:25:48 · 16 answers · asked by intimate_mask 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I think that all depends on the person
2006-09-30 15:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes a Mother can love the child and not hold the rape against them..
It has proven tome so many times and I am so amazed at how much love they would show and keep showing.
And yes they were mix in color and religion
But what you speak of is much more than rape as we in the US know it It is worst in the social aspect of it . It harder to forgive this crime by the womans family it much harder to move on in a life already harder than I will ever know.
But again could she love that child YES it part of her and love will be there no matter what.
2006-09-30 16:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by aaricka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A normal child is a 50% part of the women and 50% part of the men and so is this child, she still goes through a lot of pain and understand well that what happened wasn't the beautiful child's fault. The child will for sure remind her of the pain and hardship she went through but we must not forget women's are understanding and loving. and the rest is always up to the women ;)
2006-09-30 15:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by coolgirljuhi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I wouldn't be able to and I would support the decision of having an abortion. It pisses me off when people come up with adoption as the answer. Why should a woman have to suffer for 9 months carrying around this thing created from such an evil act just to give it up?
2006-10-02 03:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Scully 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u know what abortion in this case is not wrong.. maybe she would grow to hate this child because of what happened to her.. Hun do what you feel is best it is a tradgic thing that happened to you and I know that you wouldn't want to take all your hate out on this child because of what the babys dad did to you.. But you can also try and love this baby and forget about what that man did to you see this is a hard subject. Because No one knows how you feel but you.. Even if you don't want to get an abortion there is adoption....
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Good Luck to you and I will pray
Jaimie
2006-09-30 15:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, very much, but she would have to seperate this child from the rapist in her mind. Many women cannot do this and hate te child forever, but some cherish the baby as if it had been concieved in love.
2006-09-30 15:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by mminuyasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an individual thing. Some women may be able to handle it but I for one don't think I could. I know the child is innocent in it all, but being constantly reminded of a terrible experience is very hard to deal with. Perhaps with alot of therapy?
2006-09-30 15:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tamara 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if the pregnancy is because of the rape, then it's a gray area. lots of women undergo unsafe abortions during that time. but some see it as their own blood and continue to have the baby. it depends on how mature the mother's mind is and if she's mature enough to accept it then nobody could force to kill an innocent child...
2006-09-30 15:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Cool Z 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is tough to say. My Friend was a victim of rape. But she loves that baby with all her heart. I was worried about it because she is white, and the baby is black, but that baby is the most spoiled little thing in the world. I love to do her hair. (I am not racist, but she is) But it had changed her life alot. She also has learned that color is nothing. It is what inside is what is beautiful.
2006-09-30 15:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she can look at the child as the hope of goodness still alive in this insane world - a perfect innocence where there appears only evil. yes - she can.
2006-09-30 15:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by mburkhiser 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed. well actually it depends on the person given birth, cause it's up to them to try to forget about it and love their kid unconditionally. No no matter how they were conceived,.
2006-09-30 15:35:20 · answer #11 · answered by Lil-Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋