Just about a week ago I met two really great guys at about the same time, both on MySpace, and they both live in the same city, next to mine. I have a lot in common with both of them, they're both really nice and both cute. I replied to their emails (they both wrote me first) with the intention of being friends but now they both like me and I them. I've never had a boyfriend so I would like to date one of them, but I have no idea how I chose which. What do I do?
2006-09-30 15:16:27 · 25 answers · asked by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you have any mutual friends? Please be careful about meeting total strangers off the internet.
2006-09-30 15:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you choose, you'll feel it when you meet and you'll decide.
I'm more concern about your safety. There are a lot of people on here who sound perfectly nice, when there actually full blown space pilots!
For your first meeting go to a familiar public place with lots of people and lighting. Taking a friend would be even better. And have your own transportation. I hope you find romance, but take care. Best of luck.
2006-09-30 22:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do NOT chose
date both of them, but it is your choice if you tell them or not.
but do not chose one or the other.
date them both, there are many people in this country that have two wives and some have two husbands, not widely recognized, and for a matter of fact, it is down played completely so people do not find out how great a life style it really is..
good luck
have fun
be careful with your heart, but do not chose!
2006-09-30 22:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you never had a date, that is NOT your picture in the avatar.
Go on a simple date with each of them - first date doesn't mean you're married, for pity's sake. Dinner, movie, talking.
Figure out which one you like best.
2006-09-30 22:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by gabluesmanxlt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is like buying shoes. You never buy the first pair you try on. So try on couple before you make a decision. You'll start to understand the things you definitely like and the things you absolutely don't like. People are to complex to make decision on them based on an "email".
2006-09-30 22:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by dsorio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try both cars ...take 'em for a test drive ...check the brakes, the handling in the curves ... don't make your selection till after you try both models...... Make a informed decision!
Funny how that advice works on so many subjects.
2006-09-30 22:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should actually meet them in person first and then decide if theyre cool enougth . Try not to act like a complete dork and be interesting and take it easy and go with da flow . Good luck Ledzepbabe .
2006-10-01 05:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them to do a personality profile (like an enneagram) and see which is more compatible with your personality. Do they both like Led Zepplin?
Try the on-line love test.
2006-09-30 22:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Theodore G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let one of the least cutest boys down and tell them that you have someone else in your life and besides i'm not ready to go into internet dating becuase people on the internet can be lting about their age and all those other things that they may have on myspace.
myspace.com/ikml
Go visit
2006-09-30 22:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by Problem Solver #1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're not commited to either of them, so why don't you date both of them! Once you've been on a few dates I'm sure you'll be able to choose!
Good luck!
2006-09-30 22:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date them both, and let them both know up front. Be creative. You can have two men - this is the 21st century.
2006-09-30 22:19:47 · answer #11 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋