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You would probably feel a lot more confident if you improved your communication skills. I have found the best way to do this is a combination of reading & practice. It's also good to find out what the personality style of your girl is.

Remember that people tend to be most interested in people who show the most interest in them. Ask her about herself & let her do most of the talking...you do most of the listening (this should also take some pressure off of you & make you appear more confident & relaxed, which should be extra attractive to her). Ask what her favorite things are (hobbies, books, movies, colors, places, foods, pets, subjects, etc.) Pay attention while she is talking & if she mentions a favorite song or movie that you haven't heard or seen yet, check it out later & then another time, let her know she inspired you to do that...she will probably be flattered.

So much of good conversation is making the other person understand & feel that you find them interesting & special...and then using genuine ways to show them. Repetition & practice will make it easier for you to do this with each passing time. Here are some books that will teach you a lot of valuable information:

"The Quick & Easy Way to Effective Speaking" by Dale Carnegie

"How to Win Friends & Influence People" by Dale Carnegie
http://www.amazon.com/s?ie=UTF8&keywords=Dale+Carnegie&tag=sherylseclecticb&index=books&link_code=qs&page=1

The "Mars & Venus" books by John Gray
http://www.marsvenus.com/xcart/home.php?cat=4

"Personalty Plus" by Florence Littauer
http://www.amazon.com/Personality-Plus-rev-exp-Understanding/dp/080075445X

"The Birth Order Book" by Kevin Leman
http://www.amazon.com/Birth-Order-Book-Why-Way/dp/080075977X

Good luck with your girl & also with your quest to become a better communicator! I hope you will find this helpful.

2006-10-01 06:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by greengirl 3 · 0 0

have confidence me it rather is in simple terms an element. i became into i some approaches an identical. It wasn't until eventually i moved to a various city and met new human beings is when I broke out of my shyness. My advice is to fulfill new human beings and discover comparable activity, or a minimum of one or 2 issues you have in person-friendly to have some thing to communicate approximately and enable the friendship circulate from there. so some distance as females are worried slightly flirting is nicely well worth the attempt, what do you will desire to lose! If the female isn't fascinated , so what , circulate directly to somebody else. yet on an identical time your nonetheless very youthful, Girlfriends WILL COME i promise you fantastically AFTER extreme SHOOL. Take this time to construct some activity and do great at school.

2016-10-15 09:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

well, i'm a girl, so listen up. if she's a good girl, cute smart and funny, this is the way you can tell if she'll be a good girlfriend. if you talk to her and it's like your mouth's falling down a flight of stairs, a good girl will think that it is cute, as long as you can tell her that you are cool, your just not some nerd that can't talk right! she will be totally in to you if she's a good girl, now, that's just me, so. . .
OK?

2006-09-30 15:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by TexasGirl_300 2 · 0 0

There is nothing anybody can say to help you.

I have a huge problem talking to girls I like. I did call a girl though. She wasn't home unfortunately.

I'm proud of myself for that

2006-09-30 18:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0 0

try and have a conversation, being a complete nincompoop when you talk to her is actually really cute.

2006-09-30 15:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lexie 2 · 0 0

sit by her and say "your pretty" whal petting her face! it has a 100% chace that she will slap you! trust me i did it to an ex of mine but she hit rather than slap.

2006-09-30 15:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok wut u do is get a stuffed animal or an object around the room and pretend its that girl u like, and then practice having a conversation with her.

2006-09-30 15:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by bLAh?_mickey<3 2 · 0 0

make her laugh..
smile..
by saying sum thing funny?..
or nice..
i'm sure tat will help u alot!

2006-09-30 15:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by mojojojo 2 · 0 0

practice makes perfect. And you could watch guys who are good with girls, and do what they do.

2006-09-30 15:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

make her laugh or help her with something to start

2006-09-30 15:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by guitarjunky101 1 · 0 0

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