k well we were talking for a while about hooking up and then once skool started he started to talk to this freshman and now they r going out. this girl is on my volleyball team and i see her for atleast 4 hours a day at practice. so now that they r going out he still IMs me and Texts and calls all the time. he sends me dumb little messages like "i love u" and stuff and i think its just to see wut im going to say to it but now hes starting to ask if i would sleep with him or if he can come over and wed go to the golf course so our golf cart can "break down" whichfrom b4 i knew meant have sex. so ya i always tell him that we cant hook up cuz hes has a gf but he still tries to push the issue. should i tell her wut hes doing. if so should i show her the IMs so she sees what he is actually saying and maybe shell believe me. cuz my friend told her anonomysly b4 to watch out cuz hes a player but she didnt believe her. whats should i do?
2006-09-30 14:50:55 · 16 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to hook up with him and ive told him many times that im over all the bullshit and i just wanna b friends but he still wont drop it
2006-09-30 14:58:55 · update #1
If u let this guy play u around like that, and backdoor his gf...u are just letting a guy win....
Im not a feminist or anything but I think girls should stick up for each other. Wouldnt u like another girl to tell u if ur boyfriend was cheatin on u???
Dont make men over-rule us..........tell the girl, she might turn out to be a really good friend too!!
2006-09-30 15:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by ๑The Goddess๑ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard saying this, being that I'm a man...But let me tell you, his GF ever found out that he was hittin' you up all the time, than you will end up being involved in a situation. She'll probably give you hell during volleyball practice and all. So, you might want to bring it up to her so that she won't suspect you to being interested in him as well (or, are you?). If you had to ask what you asked, I'm gonna guess you possibly have a little interest in him. Leave him be, and move on....If he continues to pursue, then you talk to his GF about it.
2006-09-30 22:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by gzg7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is definitely a player -- you're so right about that!
I don't know about you but I like to be the number one (and only) in a relationship. This guy already has a girlfriend and he's hitting on you. If he'll cheat on her, he'll cheat on you! Who needs THAT!?!
As far as his girlfriend is concerned, I'd keep out of it unless she confronts you point blank with a "what do you think about my boyfriend?"
Remember: there are plenty of really nice cute SINGLE guys out there who will treat you like a queen! No one needs this kind of scum.
2006-09-30 21:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she didnt listen to the player advice then let her get hurt on her own. She should have listened or taken it easy knowing that he is a player. Just dont say anything to him when he IM's or texts you. You are better than that.
2006-09-30 22:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her and tell her if she would like to see the ims that you have them. Just try to be nice about it...like
"I am not trying to be in your buisness I just want to tell you he's been sayin these things, I don't think its right and just wanted you to know..I have the ims if you would like to see them."
Good luck, and tell the @$$hole to back off.
2006-09-30 21:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his gf she needs to know b/c shes the one hes cheating on she deserves the truth good luck
2006-09-30 22:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by darlingcuttiehottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him enough is enough and that you would show his all texts to his GF if he pesters you one more time.
2006-09-30 22:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Calculus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth is even if you tell her she probably wouldnt believe you either..why dont you try not being friends with him..he is a moron and you dont need friends like that...
2006-09-30 22:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S a player....
He wants you for one night and then he'll say GOOD bye
you are preciouse and deserve a BETTER guy who would love you for life ....
REJECT him FIRMLY!
2006-09-30 21:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by sweet cherry78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him off 1st. then go to the b/f and tell her whats been going on.
2006-09-30 22:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by sorahya f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋