I meet a great guy about 2 weeks ago and he stood me up on the date he asked me out on. I ran into him again at the same bar we meet at 2 weeks ago again we talked all night this is the guy i can see spending the rest of my life with but he has already hurt me once should i trust him not to do it again. He did say it had nothing to do with me and everthing to do with him the reason he stood me up but when he left he kissed me again and said if i never call it was his fault what should i do. I dont want to spend the rest of my life alone.
2006-09-30 14:44:16 · 23 answers · asked by B P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nerves get the best of people.. give him another shot.. if he does it again.. forget his punk butt
2006-09-30 14:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_spankie_85_02_04 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen!! The mind of a man is very simple.When men are interested in a women they stop at nothing until they get her(if he stood you up clearly he was not interested) maybe he sees you as a bar buddy. BARS are not the place to meet people for a relationship anyway. You should try a CAFE it's a more classy setting plus you will run into gentleman instead of jerks.
2006-09-30 14:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mysique_X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you can meet a guy 14 days ago, get stood up for a date, run into him at a bar, and without even being taken out for a proper date, be kissing him. AND consider him someone, by some magical fantasy idea, you'll be spending the rest of your life with.
I smell desperation my dear.
2006-09-30 14:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You meet this guy 2 weeks ago: and already trying to spend your life with him. Maybe you are not the one he wants in his life you can't force the issue.There are plenty of men in the world just let it go move on to the next guy
2006-09-30 14:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by the sweetest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow alone the rest of your life ? dont worry about that honey , i think you are affraid of that so you will "settle" for whoever.. not the way to go at all. and as for this guy being GREAT , you dont really know this guy, so take your time and take a chance and go out with him a few times to see what he is really like...good luck ...later
2006-09-30 14:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by fella251_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him one more chance if you really like him but know that he might not show up again. If it happens again, leave him be. Love happens when you least expect it, no need to rush it or you won't find the right one, you'll have to settle for something you weren't really looking for. Hope it helps.
2006-09-30 14:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by foxfirefly81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he give you the reason he stood you up? It's too early to really know who he is....I would probably give him another chance....once is a mistake, twice is a habit.
2006-09-30 14:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Miriams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give him one more chance. I mean if you really think he is a possibility of whom you can spend the rest of your life with, then so be it. Just be careful and god luck hun!
2006-09-30 14:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Unless he knows it was him that did you wrong. but understand that most men try anything to get back! Just pack up and leave him! dont give him another chance. Just take care of yourself! becareful out there
2006-09-30 14:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first impression of this guy. he is very into himself and rude.
he was disrespectful to you. if you go out with him you are saying that you will tolerate this behavior. have more respect for yourself, find someone else. this is no way to start a relationship.
if you call, you are saying you are desperate, you treated me badly, but i am still wanting to be with you.
no way!
2006-09-30 15:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is , should he give you another chance? Just sit back, relax, and do whatever he wants you to do, whenever he wants it. You're just a female.
2006-09-30 14:50:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋