I like a particular person in the company I used to work. We kind of wink at each other, and when walk by always glance back and have eye contact. Once I set up my car alarm deliberately just to attract his attention in the parking lot. However, he is a comfortable middle class, and I am struggling to do a lot of things, also I am trying to start a small business myself. He might just want to play, but I only have time for serious stuff. A lot of different issues there. Time passed and I left that company without dating him even once. His spirit really is haunting me now. I think of him almost at least once every day. It drives me nuts. Today at gym it suddently came to my mind and he is very much into gym too. Can I get rid of his spirit? Should I just call him up, tell him everything, to provide him the chance to laugh at me----then I will be hurt and stop thinking of him no more?
2006-09-30 14:38:13 · 9 answers · asked by yabst@yahoo.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do meditation. It will absolve you all of your evil thoughts.
2006-09-30 15:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Seagull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think calling him or contacting him in some way be it email text message are what have you would not be such a bad idea. However, I dont think you need to tell him all of what you have mentioned in your question especially all at once , perhaps if you feel the need to be compleatly honest with him , do it in steps throughout a few dates or so , that is if you do contact him and the two of you decide to date, but telling him all of it at one time would probably only hurt you in the long run. It would be flattering to him at first but soon after he got the physical advantages to your advances he would probably consider you what guys tend to refer to as phyco or a stalker or whatever. And if you really do want it to work out with this guy , i would say it would be better to proceed slowly with the barrage of info that you may have considered a semi relationship while he may have just considered it office flirting , but then again , what do i know about it rught?
2006-09-30 14:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGeorge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 02:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by his spirit haunting you. If I were you I would call him up and maybe ask him for a coffee date or something simple. The worst that can happen is he will say no and if he does, it's not like you have to face him everyday since you don't work together anymore. If you ask and he says no then you will know. If you don't ask then you will always wonder "what if?"
2006-09-30 14:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Amaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard for me to do because the young lady I think about is one of my tenants. She is Caucasian, 26yo, very cute, small, petite, has a 2 1/2yo daughter, and is ten years older than I. We have gone out on dinner dates as well as the movies but she will not go any further right now. I think about her alot but she only comes to see me when she needs something.
2006-09-30 14:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by xian w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behavior Modification. Put a rubber band on your wrist, everytime you think of him, snap it hard. :) Give it time, we all have people we can't get off our minds.
2006-09-30 14:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BLUECAT listen very carefully to me .
CLEOPATTRA HIS @SS .
He could not make the move with you at work even if he wanted to.This is the age of sexual harrassment lawsuits .
Sick em , Pounce on him . Make your move .
2006-09-30 14:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a big boy. If he wanted to make a move - he would have.
Don't mistake lonely for "love".
2006-09-30 14:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by skevans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And if he's married? (perhaps the reason he only flirted and did nothing more)
2006-09-30 14:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by LoverOfQT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋