my cousin died 3 years ago this day?

Question

i miss her
any one lost someone special to them
someone you can talk to anything about
well thats wat happened to me
she was only 12 when she died
this day is bringing me alot for memories

Answer 1

Yes, I lost my grandmother 2 years ago we talked about everything and I miss her too. When I was 8, my best friend drowned, he was my cousin also.

The anniversary date of their passing brings me memories also, and I share the good things about them to my children, it's my way of keeping them alive. I focus on the great times and the value they gave me.

I am so happy we had our time together and understand when it's my time to go someone will miss me too. I think that my sharing the memories to my children it will help them to accept it easier when it's time for me to go and they'll continue my memory with their kids. My children will know to share the good things and not to stay in the sadness but to remember the great value we were and are to each other.

Keep your cousin alive by reminding others of the great value they were to you.

Answer 2

Anniversaries are hard. I have lost so many there seems to be an anniversary in every month. :( I lost my cousin to suicide - she was only 29 and then another suicide with my sister. When my sister died, life as I knew it ended and nothing would ever be the same. It was a long time ago but sometimes I just want to call her and talk. So sometimes I do talk to her and I feel like she hears and it doesn't hurt quite as bad. I found that when I light a candle and ask God to love her and protect her and take her close to His Light - well, I just feel alot better.
At my sister's funeral the pastor said that we were all bleeding - meaning that our emotions were raw and were like open wounds. He said that eventually we would scab over and not bleed anymore but we would always have a scar. I can understand that. I don't find myself crying over a Christmas song anymore or on her birthday. But I'll never forget her and will always miss her. But life goes on and you will, too.
God be with you, sweetie, and I hope that you will use your pain for good. Plant a flower or tree in her name and honor her but live your life, too. Life doesn't make sense and I am still trying to grasp that it never will - but I think after we pass on we'll understand.

Answer 3

Hon, your cousin is only gone in body! I am sure she is still with you and watches over you!! She is definitely living on in your mind and heart!! What a great treasure it was to have her for the amount of time that you did!! That can never be taken away from you, nor the memories. Whenever you think of her, that's because she is thinking of you!! Know that she loves you and is looking over you and is now an angel!! When you start getting sad because you can't see her, think of the good times you shared with her, the funny times and the conversations you enjoyed with each other!! Pretty soon, you'll be smiling! Guaranteed!! I'll say a prayer for you both tonight!!

Answer 4

I'm so sorry for your loss. Anniversaries are hard. I lost my brother a long time ago. There are still times when I ache with the loss, but time has dulled the pain. I still miss him a lot. I hope the memories you have of her are good ones. God bless you, dear one.

Answer 5

I'm sorry for your loss.
All you can do is hold her memory close to your heart and smile.
Things in life don't always turn out the way we would like, but we have to keep on moving.
I'm sure your cousin is looking down on you with a smile on her face.

Answer 6

i have... the closest person that ive lost is my ballet teachers mother. my ballet teacher is like my second mom. i love her to death. her mom would sit at the desk and work on paperwork or on the computer at our studio to help out. she would come in and watch our combinations and watch us progress. when my mom would come in to pay she would talk to her about the girls in the stuido and about poppy (my dance teacher). she was so sweet and wonderful. a loveley person. last season she went into the hospital and we found that she had leukemia. she was pretty old, but i dont know how old exactly. well we all missed her and sent cards and flowers. and poppy would tell us how her mom says she misses the girls in the studio and watching the classes. we were going to make a video of us all to send to her but she died before we could do that it was so sad........ so i am so sorry about your cousin... how did she die?

Answer 7

I'm sorry to hear that. Death isn't easy for anyone to deal with. What I can say is the best way to cope with that loss, Is to think of only the good times you had with the person, and looking at their picture, seeing their face, heals your from the pain.

Answer 8

Ooooh. I am so sorry. Let me give you a big hug. I know you miss her. But she is still watching over you and she is happy and safe. You will be with her again. In the meantime, she wants you to enjoy this life as much as you can. So celebrate her life by making yours truly lovely.

Answer 9

I as quickly as had to attend the funeral of a infant in my type that shot himself in the top. He did not look comparable to quickly as we observed him in the casket. Nor did my nanner as quickly as I went to her viewing. only bear in strategies that dying is a factor of existence and there is not lots we are in a position to do approximately it. the final component to do is bear in strategies him and pass on the final way you may. i've got long previous by way of particularly some deaths in my lifetime and that i nonetheless bear in strategies my companion and childrens. it will make the effort, yet i'm particular he'd desire you men to maintain going. only take it one step at a time.

Answer 10

I LOST SEVEN LOVED ONES IN FIVE YRS. HARD, THAT IS PUTTING IT MILDLY. THE PAIN IS EASED SOMEONE WITH TIME, BUT YOU WILL ALWAYS MISS THEM.
I TRY AND CONCENTRATE ON THE GREAT TIMES WE HAD TOGETHER AND WHAT GREAT PEOPLE THEY WERE.
I TRY AND THINK ABOUT HOW THEY WOULD WANT ME TO HANDLE THE SITUATION, I KNOW THEY WOULD WANT ME TO GO ON. SHE WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON IN YOUR HEART AND NO ONE CAN TAKE OUR MEMORIES AWAY.