I have had a few girlfriends in the past. My last one i dated for about 2.5 years. SHe is my best friend and is always there for me....Ive been single for about 2 years now and ready to start dating. Ive been trying to get a date/girlfriend for awhile now. Why is it so d*** hard. Im either getting turned down or the girls i like allready are in relationships. What would be some good tips....thanks
2006-09-30 14:19:27 · 15 answers · asked by djc2232 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st of all don;t try so hard love will happen when you at least expect it and instead of trying to find a girlfriend go meet some new friends that are girls and then it can lead to something else good luck to you be yourself and someday love will come around for you HUGS
2006-09-30 14:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating is freaking hard these days. I would say just take it a day at a time. Tell people you are available. Try more social places like stores or bars or coffee shops. put yourself out there. There are all sorts of dating places offered such as websites. I have met a few nice guys online and they are pretty decent. My current bf was met on a website. And believe me I was the last person who thought I would go there. I use to think you had to be desperate to go that far, but its actually fun and you can pick and choose and have fun with it.
2006-09-30 21:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Go out with someone you don't like. It will keep you oppupied for a few months. Another girl will come your way and then you can dump her.
2. Be cool.
3. Go to eharmony.com or another dating website.
4. If you got friends, you got connections for a blind date. Who knows? Your blind date can be Mrs. Right.
5. Look good. Dress nice with your hair combed and everything. (get a six pack if possible)
2006-09-30 21:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by fruit salad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, your first mistake was to be friends with an ex-gf. That's like visiting the used-car lot you sold your car at to sit in it and think of the old days. She'll always talk about you with other girls and although she might say she's not with you anymore, she'll be jealous of you and your gf if she knows who she is. Secondly, most women will lie and say they are seeing someone to avoid going out with you. It's because that old "I'm washing my hair" line doesn't work anymore. Ciao.
2006-09-30 21:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dont get into a girl who is already in a relationship. 2nd dont try too hard to get a girl, you cant jus jump into a relationship after being out of one for so long..take your time stay friends for a month or so, jus find some interests and progress off of that.
2006-09-30 21:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gym helps. When we men work out we exude a certain confidence that attracks women. Plus it gets rid of the beer belly and bulds our arms. Be a bit a a hole. some women like that.
2006-09-30 21:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
funny how it seems there are no takers when we are in the market, but too many when we are attached.
my best advice is to get yourself into as many social settings as you can and make new friends. don't be so "desperate" to get a girl, just be friends and enjoy the social gathering and things will eventuate.
(i don't mean that you are desperate, but just be less keen to grab a girl, yeah)
2006-09-30 21:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-30 21:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by intrigue_ m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and time to find somebody. I don't have any series for two years and I still alive. I just don't want get any piss of shiet.
2006-09-30 21:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and be patient.. the right girl is out there for you. those other girls were not for you.. there is just that one that is going to take your heart! but be patient and stop looking! sometimes when you stop looking .. she is right there..
2006-09-30 21:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by cristinamendez02 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋