Why dont people just be foward and honest with each other insted of asking questions to complete strangers?
2006-09-30 14:19:17 · 18 answers · asked by chad b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-30 15:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by P. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
largely because most people are alienated from the reality of who they really are.Their notion of who or what they are stems from an erroneous belief instilled in them from the moment they are born.e.g[if you don't eat your peas you wont be big and strong...or...if you don't study at school your life will amount to ****] Both these comments are erroneous! but unfortunately many people accept that this is true in their lives.This is the picture they have of who they are.In reality that is only a video [so to speak] of the CIRCUMSTANCES that have unfolded in their lives and the tape is only temporarily looping and continues to do so until one gets sick of it and chooses to change the way you perceive this erroneous view of yourself.Its impossible to be totally forward and honest if that's who you perceive yourself to be because it's a lie.There is a lot to be said about the 'opinions' of complete strangers but more importantly the most complete stranger you have yet to meet is the person that you most need to meet...that person is YOU. Then you not only will have answered your own question but you will laugh at how silly it was to think you needed to ask it in the first place.
2006-09-30 15:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by head turner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand your question. For me Iam or try to be honest with people. Are you referring why do people ask questions here? If that is the question I believe it is because you feel more free to ask here because you don't know the people, I also believe that some the people here give you good answers to help you deal with whatever is bothering you. If the people answer the question with all honesty, this can help you with dealing with your decision on what you will say to the person you might be having trouble with.
2006-09-30 14:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a complete stranger doesn't know you and can be more open to listen and give you sound advice rather than someone who knows you and has formed an opinion!
2006-09-30 14:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by xian w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because a stranger would most likey tell you the truth adn what they and most people in the world think rather than your friend or someone you know because theyll just try not to hurt your feelings trust me im right
2006-09-30 14:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's the stranger here? Is it me or you?
This is the fun of answering stupid questions like this one. Oh...did I say that out loud?
2006-09-30 14:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they want to hear what they want to hear to continue making bad decisions. When someone on Yahoo tells them the truth (like me!) they report you for abuse!!! Basically, they are all screwed up and nothing anyone tells them matters at all. For me.....I get a laugh out ot all of them!!! The make me feel "smart".......LOL!!!
2006-09-30 14:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no fuckn clue! If I have a problem with someone I tell them. If i don't like something, I say so. It isn't that hard really.It is actually rather liberating!
2006-09-30 15:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Dear..........which complete strangers would you prefer to not answer your somewhat strange question.
Regards
Dorothy Mills (Mrs)
2006-09-30 14:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a problem with it then why are you wasting your time asking that question. In fact, why are you even here?
2006-09-30 14:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes it's better to get advice from an unbiased person
2006-09-30 14:23:25 · answer #11 · answered by liverandonions2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋