hello. it seems that I'm having trouble find a kind, caring, and loyal woman, these past months? mostly I've been looking online on the net, and nothing works with that situation. I've heard bars and clubs sucks deeply lol. so I never go there, I've been there done that once and never doing it again. I've also heard coffee houses and bookstores and good places. but I donno wheres the best and most common place to meet a good hearted woman. any help would be great. thanks.
2006-09-30 14:18:59 · 8 answers · asked by Shyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't know, dude. A lot of people have trouble finding a suitable mate, males and females.
2006-09-30 14:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here I am... just kidding. I think it's best to just do things you enjoy. That way you meet women who have some of the same interests and you will both feel more comfortable and will have more to talk about. Think of some things you have always wanted to do and when you are out doing them try to seem friendly and talk to everyone. If women see that you are only interested in speaking to the females they will probably think you are up to no good. Even if you don't find her, you may make some friends and have some new activities to take your mind off of looking. This will also get you out into the world and away from the net- great place to chat but probably not best for finding what you're are looking for.
2006-09-30 21:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are in bookstores and coffee houses but you need to have the guts to go up and talk to them.
Here's one way that worked on a friend of mine: She was in the bookstore in the science fiction section looking for a particular book and a cute guy came over and said "Excuse me, I've been looking for such-and-such by
If a cute guy asked me for help finding a book (I love going to bookstores) or asked me to recommend which blend of coffee to order (when I'm in a coffee house) and I was interested, I'd do what I could to keep the conversation going.
If she does keep the conversation going, that's how you know she seems interested and that's when you ask her to coffee (if you're in the bookstore) or ask if she needs a refill (if you're in the coffee house) to do whatever you need to do to take it to the next level.
2006-09-30 21:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that is hard isn' it? Well, I am having the same trouble! Same trouble finding one good man that is.
2006-09-30 22:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking and she will find you. When your looking for someone (from first hand experience I know that its hard to avoid) you will ALWAYS find the wrong one and with that comes frustration. So save yourself the pain and let her come to you.
2006-09-30 21:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Christian online dating sites and church. Singles groups at church.
2006-09-30 21:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by oneradnursey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you never gave the age group you are in....
2006-09-30 21:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church
2006-09-30 21:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by xian w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋