im new in high school, yeah im a freshman and i dont look my age, i look about 16 and boys all ages at my school want to go ith me and they are throwing hints at me sayin that they want to have sex and i want to have sex sooo bad but i cant and now im more focused on boys than i am on my school work, what should i do?
2006-09-30 13:52:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
its called puberty look into it
2006-09-30 13:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 3 ways to trash your life really fast as a teen:
1) Damage your brain with drugs & alcohol
2) Get busted.
3) Get pregnant.
Your life is worth alot. There's some good advice from the other respondents. Seriously, your mom can help more than any of us because she's actually someone you know. Or perhaps a school counselor. The older you get the more you will understand how to pick a guy that will treat you well - at your age, 16, whatever, guys don't know this yet!
Yes you are normal.
You have a job - its called school.
Good Luck!
;-)
2006-09-30 14:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by WikiJo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your school work, if you don't and start having sex with boys, years from now you'll be kicking yourself for not having the foresight to study and have a career. You're going through puberty and it's normal to have these thoughts, and remember even though you want it, emotionally you're too young and if ever you get into a situation where the heart runs away with you and you forget to think clearly, make sure you have protected sex with the pill and a CONDOM, but in the meantime I hope you will wait another couple of years.
2006-09-30 13:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are entering your teens. It is Normal for your hormones to be up and down. It usually takes them a few years to normalize as you go into adulthood.
If you are nervous about all the different things you are feeling, then talk to your school counselor. There is a lot of information she can give you to help you understand your emotions and your body right now.
Ask your Mom to help you. She was young once too, so knows how you are feeling.
Please, don't have sex. You are not mature enough to understand all the things that could happen...and all the responsibilities that go along with it.
These are all things your counselor can help you with. They talk to students all the time about these things.
Your schoolwork is the most important thing in your life right now. It represents your future.
2006-09-30 13:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by ShaamAnsu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you need to do, if you are serious about losing weight and keeping it off. Eat 6 small meals a day about every 4 hours. Here what that will do for you, your metabolism will increase (i.e. Loose weight) and you will have more engry. If you go on a diet and eat less, your metabolism will slow down and store to fat. That is why diets dont work. Only the size of your fist, carbs (examples:baked potato, pasta, oatmeal, beans, corn, melon, apples, fat free yogurt, whole wheat breads)in one and protien (examples:chicken breast, swordfish, shrimp, turkey breast) in the other. You can also eat vegetables and salads with any meal, they dont have none or little fat). 30min cardo exercise every day. Any of these(examples: walking, jogging, swimming,running, biking, ect), Monday cardo, tues upper body (arms: curls, tricep extensions,pull ups, front press)(abdominals: leg pull crunch, leg raises), (chest: bench press, butterfly, pullover)(shoulders: front press, arm pullover, cross county skier machine)(back:seated row, lat pull downs, back extension)(YOU DONT HAVE TO DO IN ONE DAY, mix it up) wed cardo, thurs lower body (legs: leg pull,leg press, squats, lounges) fri cardo, sat upper. Sunday eat anything you want and dont exercising, you do this on sunday so your body doesnt go into starvation mode. YOU NEED TO TAKE SUNDAY OFF. If you stilck with this you will have a great body. also drink aleast 8oz of water daily! Stay away from Mcdonals, Wendys, ect because there is nothing good for you on the menu's even the salads are bad (beaon bits, cheeze, dressing, ect) Good Luck :)
2006-09-30 19:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by tampabayfriends 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound just like i did. Focus on school its way more important than boys. If you start having sex right now you will be labeled as a slut so wait until your 16. You can date though thats completely normal
2006-09-30 14:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
suggest u focus on ur schoolwork
or else ur gonna regret it later in life
u gotta learn self control....or else theres no way ur gonna defeat those hormones
and ur way to young to have sex
2006-09-30 14:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get your mind off of the boys?
2006-09-30 14:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by uh...hi....? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your doctor and dont give it to just n e 1
2006-09-30 14:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by hotsuya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋