I am letting it out today , I am so fed up. I am a stay at home mom , I have a 7yr old and 5mth old. Being that my daughter is so young I choose to stay home with her. To get income I take care of an elderly women EVERY weekend, doing stuff that I really don't want too but because I have bills to pay I do it.When I am not taking care of the kids or cleaning up I am online playing games on yahoo or catching up with friends. My man had a problem with it so I slowed it down. He quit his job 2 weeks and since he's been home I have to ask him to do sh&t around the house. As soon as he wakes up he's online , during the day ONLINE , and late at night ONLINE. I confronted him about it 2day but of cousre he had an attitude. Should I leave the subject alone ?
2006-09-30 13:46:53 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stress ?? that isnt the word of how I am feeling right now. Like I said , I have to provide for my kids so I have to do what I have to do . The old lady I take care of is no easy job, I have to walk with her around, I have to wipe her up when she's in the bathroom and that is gross, I hate the job but it provides money at the end of the day. My children and I have to eat. Government isn't gonna help me so hey I am stuck until I feel that its okay to leave my baby with a babysitter
2006-09-30 13:59:06 · update #1
I would figure out which one of you are going to get a job and if it is him, tell him to get his butt out there on the pavement looking for jobs. If he wants to stay home with the kids and clean house, tell him to get his butt off the computer and get busy. If he wants to be the bread winner, he needs to find another job before he quits the one he has. He has two children and a wife now and cannot just quit his job when he feels like it and, then, play on the Internet all day and night. I am sure you are all very stressed right now and I do hope it works out for you. Good luck.
2006-09-30 13:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by RKC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to seek counseling. For yourself if your guy won't go with you. It sounds like maybe an internet addiction. If you love him, and for the sake of your kids I think you need to speak to someone and soon. Many churches have people trained in counseling on staff if $ is an issue.
2006-09-30 20:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by Beth M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. There is something called internet addiction. He should see someone about this. And he should definitely help you out around the house if he's not working.
2006-09-30 20:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by nerveserver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its bullsh&tthey can and you cant doesnt work! you must be getting payed big bank takeing care that elderly personcause if ur not you be homeless to with him and 2 kidsif his lazy *** dont get up go look for a job! your question should be his qualifications and do u have a job for him!
2006-09-30 20:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by hthammond 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, you are working(doing god knows what) to support the the four of you. The least he could do is help out around the house.
2006-09-30 20:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are curious about it and yall are involved there shouldn't be a problem. I think you should wait til an appropriate time to confront him because timing is everything when it comes to suspicion.......
2006-09-30 20:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by teach-1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, he should be helping u around rather than on the line n tel him to look 4 a job.
2006-09-30 21:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by harry d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no don't leave it alone, lay it out for him how unfair you think it is, ur in a marrage it shouldn't be you doing everything for the family...tell him how u really feel
2006-09-30 20:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is stand your ground, and don't back down.
2006-09-30 20:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like someone once told me "put up or shut up"...I didn't like the answer of course.
2006-09-30 20:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by skept1c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋