hello. it seems that all I run into when I meet women are either players, or users. I've always thought it was that women just hate nice guys? but I donno for sure cause I've not had many relationships in my life, but I've had a few, so I know that not all women are evil. but lately I've met alot who seem that way? is it me trying to be too nice? or are some women men irlitterate? or is it women want the bad boy type of guy? any help would be great.
2006-09-30 13:36:40 · 16 answers · asked by Shyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where the heck are you meeting these women that are looking for bad boys? In a bar?!? Because most bars are full of players and users.
There are PLENTY of women out there looking for a nice guy that will treat her good. Many would not stoop to going to a "meat market."
I'd suggest looking in better places.
2006-09-30 13:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Whatever you do, DO NOT change the way you are. You will find a woman who is worthy of you and who will love you the way you are. I, myself, hate a**hole guys who think they are all that and who are players. Since i am a nice gal myself, i look for a guy who is sweet, nice, honest, and worthy of my time. You will find her. Don't worry. In time, you will find her. Women tend to be attracted to bad boy types, but not all women. I am sometimes attracted to that too, but when looking for a relationship, i stick with the sweet, sincere type. So continue being your nice self and a woman will come along who will appreciate that and not take it for granted. I hope i helped you a little...
2006-09-30 13:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by ThornQueen 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Players or users? Are you sure that's a fair description or are you just bitter because they weren't interested in you?
There's plenty of women out there looking for a nice guy. You just need to try harder to find them.
2006-09-30 14:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes there are women like bad boys. But you seem attracted to those kind.
Women are confused about their roles and some have low-self esteem.
When I dated, I found that nice guys are hard to believe. It is like it's too good to be true. When I found "a nice guy" they did not "rock my world" (sexually and mentally of course). I finally made a decision based on mind not heart to marry a "nice guy" but it turns out "nice guys" are just bad boys in hiding. And the sex still stinks!
Well, that's just my raw opinion. Overall, I think you need to change what you are attracted to.
2006-09-30 13:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by skept1c 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I have been dying for a nice and emotional guy. I still kick myself to this day because I let one get away. He was so nice he was too shy to ask me out. All the signs he gave me were so hard to understand. I thought it was cute when I finally figured it out. I can only hope for the future. But no, we don't hate your type. I, personally, have always wanted a good one.
2006-09-30 13:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Do_As_Infinity 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I think that every woman has different preferances but certainly no one hates a nice man! It really does depend of the personal preferences of the woman, some like bad boy tough guys, and others like nice, caring sweet guys. I think you should just find someone who you really click with and she will end up loving you no matter which category you fall in!
2006-09-30 13:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Baby #1 due 8/14/08! 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I prefer shy guys myself they are usually nice and respectful I used to go for the bad boy type but not anymore shy guys are way better
2006-09-30 13:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
y would we hate nice emotional guys? that type of guys r easier 2 talk 2! ya bad boy type is nice on a night u feel wild and spontaneaous,but we need nice emotional guys more, nights where u feel sad and lonely are more important than when we feel wild.
2006-09-30 13:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Some do some don't !!! Don't be to emotional but don't be such a bad *** either !!!!! As for me I like a guy who is romantic but a little wild too!!!
( DON'T let them take advantage of you!)
2006-09-30 13:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by dixie_791 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
when u r nice to her and she didnt appreciate it, it just means that she not that into u. move on. find other girls who will accept u for who u r.
girls are like guys too. guys like to spend time with sluts just to have sex from them but they will marry nice women eventually. same gos to girls. we hang out with jerks just to have some fun. when we want long term commitment, the kinds of u are a valuable property!
2006-09-30 13:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by miza n 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋