but he's kinda a loser and alot of people hate him. but he has a GREAT personality (around me at least) and i think he's really cute. but lately, people have been saying that he's being a jerk. i kno that he likes one of the girls i hang out with. but she asked another guy to sadies and he was kinda bummed. he knos that i like him and i was going to ask him to sadies until i found out that thats the week were going on vacation and wont be back for 2 weeks! i really wanted to ask him to sadies.... and see if we could start some sort of relatioship or something. i think he's kind of expecting me to ask himtoo... but i dont like being to up-front with things like developin relationships, i'd rather havetheguy initiate it... its akward. so, what should i do?
2006-09-30 13:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by ily♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're "friends" and i say hi to him everyday. except lately cuz ofall ofthe sadies stuff. so, i dont want that to come up in a conversation sothatican avoid the akwardness of not asking him...
2006-09-30 13:37:49 · update #1
my friend doesnt like him.... at all
2006-09-30 13:48:59 · update #2
well go for it and just say i was going to invite you to sadies but we are busy that week on vacation and i was wonder in if you would like to hang out this week or when i get back. hope it helps
2006-09-30 13:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RED FLAG #1
He likes your friend. Leave him alone. Why? because he could use you to make your friend jealous at first or just hang with you to be close to her hoping she'll change her mind. Either way. You are worthy of pursuit and if he truly wants to talk to you or be with you he'll come to you. He knows you like him - if he was excited about that he would have made some sort of steps to act on it, he hasn't. Sad.. and not what you want to hear no doubt but go on vacation and don't think another thought about it. Or him. Unless of course - he makes a move.
2006-09-30 20:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by skevans 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask him based on the cold hard facts and logic you put. But if you like him, you could try. I'd ask someone else if possible.
2006-09-30 20:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother with what people say. i made that mistake many times. if you like this guy then be with him don't let what others say dictate your life because what do they know anyway. they aren't you
2006-09-30 20:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by demonswt88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like, you care to much waht people say and what people talk about him and you arent valueing your own opinion.
2006-09-30 20:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be no ones second best you can do better then that.
2006-09-30 20:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Scharie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋