Sometimes she'd just walk right past me, yet at other times she walks up to me to say hi.
Once, she even came to talk to me when i was with a group of my frients.
There was also this one time, where i was lending her my calculator, and all-of-a sudden, she says i love u. (did that imply anything?)
But sometimes in class she'd look at me kinda weird.
So, any advice???
2006-09-30 13:25:46 · 18 answers · asked by Ken W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she is planing on your emotions...especially that I love you part. Maybe you shoud just ask her "whats up" put her on the spot so you will know if she is just playing games with you or wants a relationship.
2006-09-30 13:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by kamsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE,
Chill for a second,
If she likes you or not two things are VERY obvious right now.
#1. You are obsessed with this girl
#2. Your self esteem is a bit on the low side
It doesnt matter if she likes you NOW, or not. Then thing you MUST do if you like, and want to be with, her is to show confidence.
MAKE EYE CONTACT when you talk to her, not when she's on the other side of the room, that can be creepy to her. Dont stare. You dont like it when total strangers stare at you, or when people you know do even...Just stareing...eeew!
SMILE when you talk to her, EVERY SINGLE TIME. This will show confidence and on a subconscious level your rewarding her for talking to you. Think about it. Do you feel better after talking with somone who smiled or someone who was stareing at the ground and barely changed their facial expression?
Try to show an Alpha Male attitude when it comes to her. NO, dont bark and growl at her and urinate in the corner.
I mean INITIATE conversation and try to start it off with something like " Hey Beautiful..." this is not sexual, demeaning, or forceful. Even if you and her are JUST FRIENDS this " Hey Beautiful" is still appropriate. Your a GUY shes a GIRL. You can and should, in a tastefull and respectfull way, tell her she looks pretty to you.
This will warm her up, and just plain old eye contact and smileing with a dash and pinch of confident behavior will cause her to see you as something to be desired!
2006-09-30 20:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by david42262 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be weird back. Take her a Hershey's Kiss on top of a candybar.
Write a note on how nice she looks - spelled backwards.
This reads like you're her pet, not a boy friend. Go for the upgrade.
2006-09-30 20:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do all of that to her back. walk up to her and sy hi, come to talk to her when she's in her group of friends.
when nxt time she borrow ur calculator and she tells u she love u, say "i love u too" *wink wink*
see if she blush.
or see if theres word get around saying she has the hots for u. girls like to confide with her friends when she likes a guy and her friends like to gossip with each other. so u may hear something about it!
2006-09-30 20:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by miza n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, the best advice anyone can offer you on these kinds of problems is to just talk to the person. She'll respect you more for it, and no one will think you're a wimp. Kidding! Really though...just ask her about it.
2006-09-30 20:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she walks up to say hi, especially with your friends around it's one of two things. She likes you ... or she's interested in you. Either way I think she likes you. She may just be attempting to be friendly.... or she may be curious to see how you'll react or respond. I'd suggest taking it slow - not jumping to conclusions and just attempt going up to say "hi" to her a few times and see how she responds. Or you could just come out and ask her, but evidently 99% of all people dating and pursuing opt out of that one.
haha
2006-09-30 20:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by skevans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are Weird not responding to her.
You have all the signs from her - she likes you but you do nothing to comfort her - You like her. Just do something ,show and talk to her and say it
"I think I like you very much or I"m sure I like You very much or I think I' m following in love/" - do it.!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 20:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are young it sounds like she does like you but does not know what to do with her feelings.
2006-09-30 20:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by jd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is ask her. If she says yeah and you like her too then go from there.
2006-09-30 20:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. She has even gone that far? Why not try your luck? She might agree.
2006-09-30 20:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋