im in a relationship, im 20 years old, and she is the first girl that i have ever loved. we've lasted through two years of a long distance relationship she and i are in school. we have 7 months to go and were both very much in love. im not sure why, i have no reason not to but i dont trust her at all anymore, everytime she goes out partying i think she is going to hook up with some random guy. she is losing patience as i have always trusted her before. i say stupid things all the time to try and make her mad, and she still hasn't gaven up on me. i dont know what to do , since i can't trust her anymore should i just set her free. this girl has been very special to me for a very long time, we've dated for about 3 years, but have been friends for way longer. need some advice
2006-09-30 13:21:07 · 6 answers · asked by bob j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are insecure. Perhaps you are looking for a way out of the relationship?
She has done nothing to make you not trust her, this is your issue, not hers. The fact that you would even think of ending it tells me a lot.
2006-09-30 13:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few years back I was in a similar situation with a girl I was in love with she lived in detroit and I was in florida where I am still at now. Anyways, we were together for like two years and I didn't see her as much as I would've like or she would've like but anyways we ended up cheating on each other but she did it first I only did it in retaliation. The bottom line is that I trusted her but she broke my heart she had a miscarriage on purpose i'm still healing but don't let that my story scare you if you love her then try to stick it out and be with her because if you been with her this long then something in your heart gotta be telling you that she's a keeper .................
2006-09-30 20:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DONT QUIT!!! i m telling u the truth .... the thing u need to understand is tht u r suspicious .... cuz u care bout her and u dont want to lose her.. u luv her down to the core and u will never b able to give up on her... dont try to get her mad at u... she hasn't gaven up on u cuz she luves u too!! u guyz have to b more open wit her adn tell her how u feel and only then can u guyz stay in this relationship 4ever!! i m telling u rite now.. i hav went through this phase in life and all tht time this advice has helped me a lot!! like now wen my luv goes to party... she calls me and tlk to me bout it... dont give up ... jus b more open and more free.... k gud luk :-D
2006-09-30 20:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she given you a reason to not trust her? Or is your mind just going crazy because you can't be with her and you are worried all the time? Hang in there, only 7 more months!
2006-09-30 20:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by hearts'n'flowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
based on your question, you are being immature and paranoid. unless she gives you a concrete reason NOT to trust her, go with it and enjoy eachother. don't ruin it with your insecurities.
2006-09-30 20:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wut tiff said if u dont trust her for no reason u shouldnt be 2gether
2006-09-30 20:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by blake_footballstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋