its a stupid questio but i'm stumbled... ok so me and my bf. are sexually active and we haven't said anything to anyone (were more of a kiss and not tell people lol) anyways well heres the thing...
his brother and his brothers wife...came up to him 2 days ago and gave him a pack of condoms for no reason..and my bf asked them whats this for? and they told him dont be stupid you knwo waht they are for.
i assumed that my bf must have told them we were active but he says he didn't..and i asked well how did they find out? and he said he doesn't know that his brother and his sis-in-law said that they can tell. by the way he acts and looks, that they can tell hes sexually active.
i dont know how they can tell by the way someone acts & looks..is that possible? can someone tell when you are having sex just by the way u act and look? i think its b.s LOL, i'm not complaining about the condoms..safety first..any clues on how they can some to that assumption...assuming my bf didnt tell them...
2006-09-30 13:07:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From your story, it sounds like you and your boyfriend have only engaged into a sexual interaction recently. My answer/assumption is this: when a person does something for the first time, they act different then when they have done it for a while. For example, when you had your very first kiss, at a party, beach, etc, you acted differently for a while, its a feeling within yourself, but once you did it for a while, it doesnt feel strange. Drinking as well, when you came home drunk da first time?? So my guess is that your boyfriend acted in some sort of self-conscious way that his brother sensed, maybe partly because of his age (your boyfriend) and your presence, in his life. Ever wondered how mothers "detect" when the child brakes a vase? Or even which child.. Hope this helps.. And dont be ashamed, it is only a normal act, as long as, like you said, safety comes first!
2006-09-30 13:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's start with this:
yes, other people can tell when we are sexually active.
First of all, because the body does release phermones during sex which kind of enhances our looks---they tell women that they got the glow of having been "laid", and it is true.
Be smart and use protective measures though, because you do not necessarily end up pregnant--so the condoms are a great idea.
2006-09-30 13:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents know when i was sexually active it the way you act and started caring about what u look like and how u going to get some and by you buying sexy thong and stuff
2006-09-30 13:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, think about this a minute......two people of opposite sex spend lots of time together...... are in a relationship..... and could possibly be having sex............and have a family member that is older and cares about the health of both his brother and his brothers gf....... mix it all up and low and behold------> you have an unbelievable stupid question for yahoo answers!
* to all the people who say that you can tell bc of "the glow", or smiling at each other, or (laughing uncontrollably now) "your hips grow when you have sex so that you can get ready for babies"... you are all wrong...no one can tell if two people have had sex unless they overhear it or oversee it....they can, however, infer that since these two young people spend inordinate amounts of time with each other, and seemingly enjoy each others company.....now here is where it gets difficult, so bear with me people....follow me.... follow me.....they might be having sexual intercourse..... in unison now..... your hips grow bc of puberty, not bc u had sex.....
2006-09-30 13:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by derek s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. when people are smiling a lot for no apparent reason, a glazed look in their eyes, and just generally happy with no sign of drugs or alcohol and no good reason for it, then people can tell. AT least most people who have been lucky enough to have felt it themselves.
2006-09-30 13:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they're obviously using their heads. Two young ppl+ raging hormones+ lots of time doing stuff together alone+ they seem to really be into each other = go figure!!!
2006-09-30 13:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by dream_angel_come_true 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can definately tell is someone is having sex or as they say in other words. . . playing hide the sausage! To me it is very obvious! Don't worry about it. . just keep on bangin!! You go girl!
2006-09-30 13:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt mean he told them,
Brothers and sisters just know that at a certain age thier siblings are either having sex or getting ready too,
And if you are both young,,,,,,condoms are a good thing...
2006-09-30 13:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by leonyne2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never knew you could with a guy but a girl, some walk a little bull-legged.
2006-09-30 13:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably saw a used condom in the trash or heard you in the process.
2006-09-30 13:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋