on meeting them, my friend instead had deep feelings for the friend. He felt they matched eachother. As they chatted and had dinner, my friend realised the other girl who came along had alot of stuff in common. Now his confused. He is not attracted to the blind date but to her friend. What advise can you give him as he feels abit guilty making a move on the friend. NB: The blind date realllyy liked him. She thinks its the best match...
2006-09-30 13:06:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..ah and yes, the friend likes him too but does not want him to tell ther blind date (girl)...
2006-09-30 13:11:51 · update #1
that happens, your friend should go with the one he likes...there is no point in dateing someone if you don't want to be with them...it's dishonest, and it leads the other person on. Tell him to talk to the other girl, and see if they can get together...the circumstances of how they meet should not change any feelings they may have...if they are mutual.
2006-09-30 13:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should hook up with the Blind Date Girl, and leave your friend with the best friend....
as for a serious answer... tell your friend to choose... thats the reason you go on blind dates... if he doesnt like the date, then maybe he should try dating the friend...
2006-09-30 20:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your buddy cant feel too bad for her. It was jus a blind date and he doesnt really owe her anything. But if he wants to be the nice guy he can call her and let her know he had a nice time but he jus doesnt think it will work out. DO NOT!! ask her for her friends number or anything like that...trust me. Good luck
2006-09-30 20:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're whole entire story is kind of confusing. you friend should just be honest with the person he doesn't like better to be upfront then lie and end up hurting someone more by deception.
2006-09-30 20:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by dzjoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋