does she like me? hmm?

Question

i've seen her a few times in my school. shes in 9th grade im in 10th grade...and one day, i told myself that i can't go home from school regretting the fact that i didn't take my time to talk to her. and one day i said "hey you! wuts ur name?" and she seemed kinda weird and freaked out. i understand, we tlaked and i got her name, but she keeps on walkin away. so i got nervous and jumped to conclusion and ask for her sn. and got rejected (-.-) she wasn't mean about it but like she answer me as if it was a joke. lol but anyways, a few days later i called out her name and we talked for a lil bit, i flirted with her but i notice that she doens't even look at me when i tlak to her. but i was thinkin mayb everything is cool. the next day, her bestfriend said hey! are you vinny? i said yeahh why? she said that her bestfriend told her..so in my mind mayb this girl has a little crush on me? so i told on of my friends to go over to her and call her over for me (dumb move) i should have done that

then i was hoping for her to come to me...but she didn't... so i went home still regreting not talkin to her myself but tellin one of my friends to call her over for me. now i don't kno wut to do. cause rite now im thinkin that she doesn't think im man enough to talk to her u kno? like i have to call someone eles to do my job :( i don't even kno wut to do. but im not trying to rush anything...wutever happens happens....but still, i don't wanna be too laid bak and make everything slip away

what should i do? she seems shy

Answer 1

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 2

DUDE!


Chill out for a second... take a deep breath... calm down...

You didnt blow anything, were talking about 2 or 3 days, if that, of communication. ITS NOT THAT SERIOUS.

#1. First of all, theres nothing to blow. You and her do not have an existing relationship. So don't worry about blowing anything.
#2. This is called the pack rule. Have you noticed that, especially in school, people tend to moveing in groups? These in the wild are called packs or prides, and it sounds as if she may be pack leader in her circle of friends. She will not seriously acknowledge a person that is not LEADER of their pack. You must become the ALPHA male and in someway display this to her.

This, in a way, means to have your friends do things FOR you. Like contact her, and whatnot. They follow your lead. let her see you and your friends going somwhere and then YOU turn another direction and start walking, then they follow YOU. This works on a subconscious level on her, letting her know you are not a mere pawn, or follower. Show CONFIDENCE beyond just making the first move.

When talking to her adress her as " Hey Beautifulll..." and continue talking. This will let her know that you are confident, and willing to compliment her in a group NO SWEAT!

With her personality type, She will definetly respond more to a display of confident advances then to you worrying about them...

Answer 3

it may be like Helga from "Hey Arnold!" if you have ever seen that cartoon. She was the meanest lil thing to his face (arnold) and around him, but yet in her room she had a shrine built in his name and was secretly in love with him. I say wait a little on this. See if she continues her behavior of ignoring you. Talk to her friends more to see if you can find anything out. If you are feeling brave, then just go ahead and ask the gal out. I remember i was like that myself. Back in high school when i had a crush on a guy and he tried to talk to me, i would pretend i didn't hear him, ignore him, and walk away, and then i was kicking myself in the a** for not talking to him. Good luck to ya, and if it doesn't work out with her, there are plenty more fish in the sea...

Answer 4

Well, just dont be afraid to talk to her and just wait and see what happens. If she is interested she will probably come and talk to you sometimes too. She must be a little shy, she should get the hint though. Try not to get too excited or you will be extremely dissapointed if nothing happens. I hope things get better it is way cute how you're so into her!!! Good luck!!!

Answer 5

Let's see.

She seemed kinda weird and kept walking away.
You asked for her sn and she said no.
She doesn't even look at you when you talk/walk.

Honey... two things.

1. She's disrespectful and rude.
2. She's not into you - and you don't need her.

*wink*
Find a girl to appreciate sweetness.

Answer 6

Just go and ask her to lunch or an after school snack. If she goes, then yeah she likes you. But if she hems and haws and tries to say she has other plans then she probably doesn't.

Answer 7

Maybe she's probably shy. As time goes on she'll like u. Keep trying and be patient

Answer 8

well hon, she may just like you as a friend to your face and then behind closed doors she might be upsessed with you so just chill and take it slow. she'll come to you if you leave it alone

Answer 9

yeah, she does like you. just ask her out.

Answer 10

u are doing good. keep it moving and she how she reacts