i have a friend who i really like. i asked her out a year ago and she said no. we hang out as friends but it is really hard for me. she ecompasses a lot of my thought. the thing is i care about her way more than she does about me. she is a sweet girl and all but everytime i see her it jsut reminds me that i will never have her and that makes me sad. should i talk to her and say cant see her nemore? i dont see my feelings for her going away ever and the only way they will is if i dont see her. should i ask if her feelings have changed and if they havent then i cant see her nemore even as a friend. my grades are dropping because of her and i just overall feel like ****.
2006-09-30 12:52:53 · 8 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand where you are coming from. It is so heart breaking .if her feelings have changed about you and she does care about you she would more then likely told you by now. she knows how you feel about her without you telling her.she feels it. so you are better off doing without her , she is bringing you down and your grades , you need to finish school . You can if you feel it is best for you , ask her how she really feels about you then take it from there.. Don't let your love for her spoil your education .
2006-09-30 13:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes talk to her, maybe you can work it out with your feeling so you can stay friends. to say you can't see her again is not a good way of handling it. talking is best and you never know, she may feel for you some how. and if not find someone else to date but keep her as a friend.
2006-09-30 19:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by spurjc_mil2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you asked her out but she refused. Man, wake up. There are so many beautiful girls out there. I think you should just keep her as a friend and get another girl.
2006-09-30 19:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her everything that you said hear and if she backs off then you have your answer. Perhaps she has changed her mind. Just let her know and then you will know how to handle it from there.
2006-09-30 19:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by po8t1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her first does she still like u if not tell her how u feel
2006-09-30 20:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Peyton J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude talk it out with her it works evertime with me and shell proball understand and go out with u
2006-09-30 19:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by blake_footballstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel right now.
2006-09-30 19:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go gay!!!
2006-09-30 19:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Im Sexier 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋