Raising Children alone is not easy, but give so much credit to men that raise there children alone.Just wanted to here some of the problems
fathers have, when they have to be mother and father both to there children..Would love some feedback on this question..
Thank you..
2006-09-30 12:49:53 · 7 answers · asked by shea_harriet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, I was raising my son alone, and though we had a lot of "good" times, we also went through some things. Like when he figured out that "being" a single parent was hard on me, it meant "he" could do certain things I didn't know about. Of course I found out, and he thought because the laws are what they are, I would back off and just "let" him do whatever. He then found out I am from the "old school" so to speak, and I don't "care" what the laws are. I am a good loving parent with boundries. In the long run, he appreciated those "boundries," and has turned out to be a great young man. I found that allowing my kids to talk, say how they feel, as long as they use respect when they "say it," things turn out a lot better.
Treat them how you want to be treated, don't treat any of them more special than the other, and compliment even their smallest accomplishments. And always do "something" for yourself. Sometimes when a child see's that the parent has made everything about "them," they will guilt trip you when it's time for "you." They will also learn to respect you for that. Hey, Good luck
2006-09-30 13:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I split up in 2000 we had three children I got custody she got supervised visits only. Problems? I would NEVER EVER consider any of my children a problem. Playing both Mom and Dad was tough but the rewards far out weighed that. Focus on communication with your children that is key. Enjoy every moment with them even tough moments. It had some tough moments but was never a problem. Their ages at that time were 10-6-3. I have since remarried and children call her Mom and she is the Mother their real Mother never was. All are doing well and there are two more also. Yes a total of five children all a blessing. Four are in school all are doing well three are honor students one is GATE and last year won the award for best GPA for entire school!
2006-09-30 12:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What Are Some Of The Problems Men Have Raising There Children Alone?
2006-09-30 12:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by kevin m 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Patience, love and understanding are needed . you need a good relationship with children to start. treat each as equals in sharing and giving.. the only problems parents have is not listening to the children and having no Patience..if they have a complete understanding in the house hold rules and what is to expected of them each day then there should be no problems.
2006-09-30 13:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not alone, but I can see why men might have trouble raising kids alone. I love my son very much, but sometimes I get fed up with the little stinker and I know I don't treat him as gently as I should. When that happens, it's nice to have a wife to hand him to. She has maternal instincts that help her to be gentle with him. If I was on my own with the little guy, I'd have a tough time if I didn't have anyone to hand him to when I get fed up with his screaming, peeing, pooping, spitting up, etc...
2006-09-30 12:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would think it might depend on if they are boys or girls. Gotta be hard on a guy raising girls without a mom around. All those questions he has no idea how to answer.
2006-09-30 19:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by nativeAZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i won't leave my son alone when his friends are over, they are 9 an 10 yr olds and very messy fighting all the time kids,so i can't get out for anything from the store or a beer at a buds,just can't get out when they group here as they always seem to do
2006-09-30 12:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by steve 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋