i really like this guy named Bob*(if yuo havnt read my other problem that i made today please do and reply because i need all the help i can get. Well he hasnt called me today and i really am starting to like him i can't stop thinkin about him and i told him to call me but he hasnt yet and i want to call him but i want him to call me because it shows he likes me....I NEED HELP I REALLY AM STARTIN TO LIKE HIM!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 12:43:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well,I think you should just wait until he calls you.Maybe he's gonna call you when he has a free minute.Don't worry.
2006-09-30 12:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Melissa, you need to step back a bit. He showed interest when he asked for your number, you showed interest when you gave it to him and told him to call you. Let it be, now; it's his turn.
It's hard to keep your cool when you like someone a lot, but if you persist in asking him to call, or trying to get his attention, you are going to seem desperate. Desperation is not attractive. If he's one of the hottest guys in school, he probably has a lot of girls chasing him, and acting desperate. Be different. From your other question, it sounds like you started out on a friendship basis with him. Go back to acting like a friend; it's what attracted him in the first place.
If he likes you well enough to want your friendship to become something else, the fact that your parents are strict about your social activities should not prevent him from pursuing a relationship with you, and respecting the rules of your household. If he just wants your friendship, be content with that, and be his friend. If you both want it to, your friendship may become something more in time.
2006-09-30 20:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by functionary01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I answered your other question but I'm not sure if he really even likes you. It doesn't sound like he's interested. Also, some guys just don't take the time to check their answering machines. I wouldn't be too worried about him not calling you back today. Wait a few days, then, if he hasn't called back, leave him alone. He's not worth your time.
2006-09-30 19:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is calm yourself down and stop obsessing over Bob. If he likes you, he will call. If he doesn't, then you're better off knowing sooner than later. You've told him to call you; if you call him again you'll come off as a needy lunatic. Leave him alone; if he doesn't call you, move on.
2006-09-30 19:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is playing the wait three days to call trick so be patient with him and don't be obsessive..but if he doesn't call EVER..he has no intrest in you and you should dump him..it may be hard, but think if he can't call you why do you need him in your life? You will just be ruining your heart and time for the guy who would call you.
2006-09-30 19:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ellise T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..... i had the same problem. i was really sprung over this guy and i was literally in love with him! HE used to call ME every other day or so. so one day i just stop falling for him.( it took me a while but i did) so later on( about 3 months) he called me everyday and at the time i liked some one else. the thing is just PLAY HARD TO GET!!!!!!!! GUYS LOVE THAT. I NO!!!
2006-09-30 19:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by marilu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the rule most guys have is that they will wait 3 days before they call a girl so the guy will not seem desperate. just give it time, but if he dosent call you in atleat 4 days
Confront him, kindly
2006-09-30 19:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Re-Re 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-respect is the most appealing character in a romantic partner. make sure that you are not the only one feeling that way. I think you just need to relax and let things happen the way they should.
2006-09-30 19:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by kano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you think it's been too long, then call him. But find a way to occupy yourself in the meantime.
2006-09-30 19:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am having the same problems like u. i try to be patient. just wait till he calls u. if he doesn't do it today, u must call him
2006-09-30 19:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋