i am 18 years old and i am sexually active.
i love sex and i cant seem to go with out it for long.
i am addicted to it. i need it every day, well at least every other day, because i can masterbate to hold me over too.
i mean sex is the greatest thing in life and feels sooo good, so why not do it all of the time right?
well usually on first dates, i have sex. and i will meet guys and usually have one night stands at least 4 times a week.
i like to experiment, and i like to mix in girls and multiple partners at once as well.
i am sorry that i am an attractive girl.
i have an amazing body and i like to use it and have fun!!!
honestly, does this make me a slutt?
2006-09-30 12:41:40 · 26 answers · asked by hottay ;] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are good at it, then no you are not a sl*t. If you aren't good at it, then yes you are a sl*t! Good Luck!
2006-09-30 12:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most poeple will call you a Slut for the one night stands. having sex is natural, but you need to have control like others have said and find one guy to be with, since there are soo many STD's out there, and since one night stands can get you hurt too. if you want to try different sexual things find a guy that would be into be a swinger with you and find other swingers to help you, and make sure you get yourself tested and be on birth control.
2006-09-30 12:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by spurjc_mil2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course it does. what else would be the definition of a slut if this isn't it? you need serious help, this is not normal behavior. sex is great and everything, but being obsessed with it is going to bite you in the a s s one day. I hope you use protection at least.
2006-09-30 12:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends by who's standards. Because you dont seem to have any yourself. As soon as you figure out who's standards your gaging this on, you will have an answer. In the meantime you might want to try to figure out a few things about yourself. First being why you would say you love sex so much, are an attractive girl, with an amazing body so you like to use it. Use it for what? Using your body as you say would indicate you are looking to get something for offering it. Because if it was solely about sex you wouldnt need to talk about your physical qualities. And why do need to apologize for being pretty? Why are you sorry about that? You should be grateful you were blessed with beauty. Next you might want to figure out why you need to have sex with multiple partners on a daily basis. Why not have sex with the same partner? Even if you like to throw in a girl here and there. I can tell you sex usually gets better with time. You get to know the persons likes and dislikes. They care more about you when theyre in a relationship with you, so they are more concerned with pleasing you. Ask any guy who he is more concerned with pleasing? His girl. Or some chick he met walking down the street who went home with him and had sex with him after knowing him a few hours. I have a feeling the reason you are having sex with so many partners isnt out of desire, but need. And acceptance. Youre never going to find what youre looking for doing what youre doing. If youre that pretty, with a smoking hot body, you can get any guy you want. Make them work for it. Dont give it away so easily. Use a vibrator. Have sex with a girl. Dont let some dude unload in you that you dont know. Take all the attention they want to give you. Without feeling like you have to repay them with giving yourself to them. I know youre young. And Im sure youre saying whatever. But I assure you its not about having to get laid for you. And you will regret it ina few years. You dont have to be with one guy. Just slow it down and watch the guys work to be with you. Not whats between your legs. Men are so PUS** driven at that age. They dont think 20 minutes ahead of it. And they dont give you a second thought as soon as they leave. You know you think about a few of them. Dont let men use you. You deserve so much better. Dont settle. I dont think you would have come here asking if you didnt want to hear the comments you know some people will make. You know the answer. Take care of yourself.
2006-09-30 13:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by aperfectpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need self control and sleeping around does yes make you by definition a slut!no offense but its a fact thats what most people will think of you that or a sex addict.
2006-09-30 12:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you bragging or complaining. While its quite normal to have a healthy sexual appetite, from the sounds of things (if you're telling the truth) you're could be heading for some serious trouble if you continue as you have said you do. Enjoy, but be careful.
2006-09-30 12:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sound like to me u are an male slut or an girl slut either one it seen to me also u have low esteem and probbaly need to get help but anyone
2006-09-30 12:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you're a s l u t ...and you are a breeding ground for std's (whether you use condoms or not).....how sad to be 18 and already disrespecting your body and making a name for yourself (and not in a good way).....believe me, people are talking about you, and it's not because of your self-proclaimed beauty and "amazing" body.......
2006-09-30 12:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as if you probably hate yourself...it also sounds like people who know you think you are a slut-they can come to no other conclusion. It also sounds like you are begging for a disease. Good luck.
2006-09-30 12:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not really,,,You are just oversexed and I could use you some to help me out. Experimenting sounds like a lot of fun to me...
2006-09-30 12:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you are having fun. I wish I could meet you.
2006-09-30 12:49:02 · answer #11 · answered by fireman4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋