when i go to her house they lie to me like she isn't there!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 12:38:55 · 13 answers · asked by mista c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be prepared to tell her the truth as to why you stood her up first. And don't lie. There must be a good reason if you love her like you say you do. No matter how hard you have to try to get through, keep trying. Buy her a gift certificate for a facial or massage. Something nice for her to say your sorry and I want you to have some time to destress yourself from the hours you must have felt stressed because i was thoughtless and inconsiderate. Most importantly, donot make her ask you what happened. Step up and start the apology with the truth. And dont end it with a but...or I wouldnt have done it if you didnt.....just apologize and explain. You could even tell her you understand if she wants a few days to forgive you. That you will be anxiously waiting. And be sincere. If her housemates or family memebers she lives with are going to the extreme of lying and saying she's not there, it means she was hurt. Which can only mean she cares. If she didnt she wouldnt be avoiding you. She wouldnt care. So youve got that going for you.
2006-09-30 12:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by aperfectpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her flowers, and tell her an explanation on why you stood her up and how you feel about her. If you really love her then there must have been a good reason why you didn't show up. & every girl likes to feel like their the most special girl in the world.
give her a little bit of space but don't seem to far away. Telling her "Im Sorry" a thousands times isn't the same as one good explanation.
2006-09-30 19:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well......you can call her, text her to meet up with you..and hey, make sure it is close where she lives so she don't have to walk very far...she may not believe you..so if you have a camera phone take pics of the place where you are standing and send her pics of it so she can really tell you are there...so when she comes beg for mercy and ask forgiveness in a nice polite but loving way. Say you are sorry for being an idiot and disappointing her....give her a hug and promise to NEVER do it again..and if you promise it...don't break it..be there...and tell her if you can't make it sometimes..then you will call her...NOW once she forgives you take her out to the place she wants to go..and apperciate her forgiveness and tell her that too...
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-30 19:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ellise T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not love your girlfriend if you stood her up. I am sorry, but if you love her, you would not leave her sitting there waiting for you, feeling like a fool and being humiliated in front of her family. Shame on you! You should just wait until she has overcome her embarrassment at your behavior and ask her forgiveness. Remember, you are wrong, and she doesn't owe you a thing.
2006-09-30 19:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crawl baby crawl... and beg beg beg!!! for her forgiveness... some tears and loud crying could help too. Shame on you - why would you want to stand up someone you say you love.
2006-09-30 19:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she work? Send flowers to her workplace. She will love it. And remember to say you're sorry!!!
2006-09-30 19:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her some flowers.
2006-09-30 19:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by NoDoubt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! that's a toughie! maybe you should give her a couple days to think about it. call her back. then talk to her about it and if it doesn't work, then just break up i guess.
2006-09-30 19:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by artisiaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to grovel, dawg.
2006-09-30 19:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by evilim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give hre some flowers
2006-09-30 19:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by Danny_Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋