I don't know why I am such a jealous person but how do get over it?
2006-09-30 12:37:19 · 18 answers · asked by doc_is 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't get over it if it's part of your personality. You learn to control it, keep it to yourself and use it to your advantage.
Jealousy keeps you aware. Too much jealousy drives people away.
Learn to balance. :)
2006-09-30 12:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have felt cheated in life. People feel jealous when they want something someone else has, that they can't get. So what is it that you want that you can't get?
Make a decision in your heart that you are loving and beautiful and that you don't need to envy anyone or any thing. You are somebody special because you were created that way.If its material needs than it s a matter of working a little bit harder to get those things. If its a relationship, youi need to first trust yourself so that your mindset isn't negative.
It takes time!
2006-09-30 19:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Realize that jealousy is basically a feeling of insecurity. Why do you feel so insecure? Know why and then you wont feel so jealous. Also, if this helps any, as you get older, those jealousy feelings go away and as you feel more and more secure with yourself, you will stop being so jealous. about things and about others Something to look forward to in your older years.
2006-09-30 19:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep working on it at least you admit to being jealous and having a problem with it so that is a big step in the right direction!
2006-09-30 19:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is wanting something that others have and in order to not be jealous you have to appreciate the things you've already got. You have to be happy with yourself and if you can't seem to do that you need to work harder to get the things you want in life because we all create our own destinies. Good Luck!
2006-09-30 19:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Brit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can start by finding out what it is about you that no one has but you and be proud of it. Then realize that other people deserve to be proud of themselves as well. Everyone deserves a chance to be happy. Learn how to accept that something positive for them can be enjoyable for you as well. You don't always have to be the center of attention to have a good time. Join a club or a sports team and learn the value of teamwork. Then, apply it to your personal life!
2006-09-30 19:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to think why you are this way. what reasons do you really have to be so jealous. jealousy will kill a relationship. you need confidence in your self and in the person you are with if you are. keep your self and your feelings in check . most all people are jealous for different reasons but being overly jealous is not cool. what ever reason you are this way you really need to cool it ...
2006-09-30 19:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may just have to pray when these things go on and get away
from the people who are treating you wrong and someday their will
be Mr. right. It sounds crazy but it's true and you will feel a lot better
about yourself. GoodLuck!
2006-09-30 19:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by studentcounselor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what it's like being real jealous.One thing that will make you stop,is when your boyfriend dumps you for it.Guys hate jealous girls.It makes you feel like you're clusterphobic.I know it's hard to overcome,but just tell yourself,"He's with me,not her,so apparently,he WANTS to be with me."
2006-09-30 19:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to have more confidence in yourself and don't seek too much approval of others. Be a leader not a follower (I don't mean this in a bad way)
2006-09-30 19:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋